Originally Posted by
Slave Guinevere
Maybe, YOU have not noticed but I am not the WHINING type.. I am nice to a point... Then, I am a very direct and in your face sort of person...
Now, first off... You aren't the one being pressured to have a penis forced into your ass now are you? Let's keep that image in your mind now shall we?! This is the GREEK thread...
Did you READ SexyJess's opening post!?! Men are trying to force her verbally into doing Greek... Maybe, you missed those posts...maybe, you missed the rage in her posts... Do you think she is the only one? Are you that naive? Now, let's talk about coercion...
Now, let's imagine that you have also clearly spelled out your BOUNDARIES to the gentlemen and then you have these same men question your prices, your location, your activities...AGREE to these BOUNDARIES and then once you GET THERE FLIP THE SWITCH and try to FORCE THE AGENDA to what they want...
But, look at you.. Let's call it mansplaining anytime a female has to come into coed to help teach the young ladies that it is "OK" to not only set boundaries but to enforce them...
So, why am I here? Because, you guys are there whispering in their ears saying "You won't be successful if you don't post photos of your face...check Dallas coed for that thread...you need to do BB TO be successful...the list goes on and on and on"... Then you tell them they won't be able to pay rent...they are hungry or they have children to feed... I am not new... I know the games being played...
Now, theoretically, per YOU GUYS, I should not have been successful...but, I have...
I do not need this drama and I for damn sure do not want it BUT, when I started, we used to have a community where both the men and the women posted and the new girls could watch and learn...watching women like me post on the boards is a way for myself, and the other ladies, to mentor, the new girls on how to express themselves, and that it is ok, for them to respect their body, their rules and their choices...
Coming into coed and saying "No, that is not OK, gives the ladies a feeling of power in a world where oftentimes, they feel quite powerless... This world can be the most exhilarating sexual experience that a man or a woman can feel...but imit can also be the worst...learning how to handle all of the ups and downs takes a village from both sides...
So, please, do not try to come in here and try to Gaslight myself, and the other ladies, with phrases like "you can block emails or texts" because you do not do what we do.... In other words... Shut up and hop back into that kitchen right? Lol... Sometimes, the ladies and the men need express themselves in this world...I have an assistant to help me and that is a godsend but most of the ladies do not... You guys do it when the ladies nipples were not as PUFFY as you would like...lol...REAL WORLD ISSUES...LOL ��
These baby girls need to learn to handle themselves on and off the boards and if it bothers you to READ words like "consensual" and "rules"... Well, that says more about you then it does about any of us...
Have a great day!! I hope we have this little issue settled and I want you to know, that I fully support you guys whining about being fucked in the ass as much as we do!! Use A LOT OF LUBE!! ������