Originally Posted by
SpencerTracy
All about the chemistry and charisma.
I've had situations where I had a regular and the excitement was no longer there...provider, knowing what I liked before, tries to repeat the performance over and over, and sometimes that just gets stale after a while...kinda like a marriage. LOL. I mean, I liked that position and "That Thing You Do", I really did...but I also want SOME spontaneity...some reciprocity of engagement...some new form of seduction. It's tough, I know...but that's perhaps why the answer is often just changing providers and moving on from previous regulars.
I have also had situations where the provider was more interested in texting or some RW issue/distracted, but they need the $$ (or don't want to cancel), and it definitely made for a poor environment for having a good time for anyone. Charisma zero, chemistry zero, even if they showed up on time and we did all the things I wanted to do. It happens.
That's what makes writing some reviews difficult...was this a "one time thing?", was this "only with me?"...writing that you won't return doesn't mean that the same provider couldn't be a BCD rock star on another day. But we all know that writing a "I won't return" review can release quite the drama.
Physically, you have to click at some level. I've had some providers that really don't want to BJ, prefer to have penetration...some providers that really want the BJ, don't really want the penetration...and you can tell in their attitudes even if all is technically on their menu...whether your desires and her desires match and form good chemistry is all about trial and error, ultimately.
But it happens to everyone if you are in this long enough.