Who has replied to reference requests?

[MeetJadeRose]

Not trying to derail or side swipe this thread-but a question arises-how do the ladies feel about one of their regulars asking for a referral to see somebody else in town? Seeing someone out of state is one thing-but I wonder if the no contact back is because they are a bit pissed? "Why isn't he seeing me?-Well fuck him!" type of thing...perhaps?

My personal opinion is— they are entitled to see whoever they want, I don’t own him. Even regulars, I can share lol. If they want to see someone else, great, when they want to see me... great. Have I ever had some pouty or hurt feelings when a longtime regular starts seeing others here and there? Sure, hehe, but that’s simply out of appreciating our connection, typical romanticized conditioning, and a part of being an emotionally in tune person. Not to get too esoteric but I support sexual exploration in general even if it’s not always directly benefiting me, because I believe that showing support and gratitude comes back to benefit us. While I love to have unique “regular” situations where they only see me or we have frequent visits for long stretches of time, overall I believe “your people” will always find you, and stay around as long as they’re meant to. As long as it’s within reasonable timeframe as far as asking for a vouche, I’m totally willing to give it. Now, if it’s someone who saw me once a couple of years ago and is trying to use me as a ref for different girls, that’s different, for safety and business purposes. Maintain at least some regularity out of courtesy if you desire frequent vouches, doesn’t have to be every month. I believe there is more than enough abundance for all of us and we don’t need to try to “hoard” clients, let’s keep supporting each other’s business and safety.