Monica, it’s funny you talk about being like s nun. Lol. Outside of the hobby, I’ve just never been promiscuous. I went on vacation once with my girlfriends and they both went crazy hooking up with random civilians. Not me! They nicknamed me the ***** nun, because my legs wouldn’t open for anyone.

I’ve come to several conclusions. 1. This hobby has spoiled me to the point, I sorta lost my dating social skills with its ease and lack of pretense. 2. I don’t like bad sex! You toss a coin in the civvie world when it comes to sex for the first time. A lot of hobbyists are sex athletes like us, so the chance of bad sex is slim! Throw in the element of surprise if it’s a new client and the bit of danger the hobby lends and boom! It makes for explosive sex! Perfect for the thrill seeker. Some say it’s easier to tell a stranger their secrets than someone close to them. I think sex is like that too for a lot of us. At least for me.