I've realized recently that the kink in my life that has been elusive to me for so long might just be something that was so taboo that even I had an issue with it.
I would really love to try something like this out but I feel like I need to trust the person I'm engaging as much was I want them to ultimately trust me. How do I approach this subject with a female without being taken as someone with a serious glitch or expect to be taken seriously about my desire when I know that the idea itself brings so much pain or repressed trauma to so many?
Any advice appreciated.
Deaner