WTF Houston?!?!?! Is this acceptable?

[Dorthy Monroe]

Ghosting - The act of suddenly ceasing all communication with someone. This is done in hopes that the ghostee will just "get the hint" and leave the subject alone, as opposed to the subject simply telling them he/she is no longer interested in communicating.

Is this something with Houston or is it me? Is this acceptable here? This is the third time this has happened to me. I get verified with a well established provider. I send my references, they get checked, and we’re good to go. We agree on a time to meet. This is where is starts to go wrong...
I message, or text, when on the way (usually 30 minutes ahead of appointment).
Then I text when in the general vicinity.
Then I pick a fairly central spot to the vicinity to park and wait.
And wait...
And text.
And wait...
Nothing. I then give a fifteen minute window that I’m leaving.
Then after waiting for a total of about forty to forty-five minutes, I’m upset.

The first time this happened to me, the provider actually gave me the address and apartment number. I knocked, and knocked, and knocked and waited for fifteen minutes. Tried calling and after I left, I then get a text. These last two I have yet to hear from again.

What am I doing wrong???

So after she lets you know that you’re screened and ready to see her do you proceed to be the usual f u c k t a r d and ask questions you shouldn’t or have any type of communication that would make her feel uncomfortable?

You say that y’all agree on a time to meet so do they give you an address? If no address is given y’all don’t have an actual appointment!

Ive said this numerous times over the years if you don’t have the address you don’t have an appointment! This cuts out all this stuff you’re going through!

Also what’s your definition of a well established provider?