Or if we put it in legal form it's "fuckee or fuckor."
I've used both of those, but it's been a while.
One of my favorite movie lines is from "Best Little *****house In Texas." The sheriff is basically being thrown under a bus by everyone who knew what was going on for years, but suddenly found it politically expedient to 'play dumb' and let the sheriff take the heat. He's talking to the madam and says "Sometimes I feel like a country dog in the city. If I stand still they fuck me, and if I run, they bite me in the ass."
Regards,[/b]