Looking for some advice here

[Alyssa XOXO]

Regardless of what happened, a ****** desperate for $50 is obviously not doing something right. He's got the money and there is pussy galore in this industry. A lot of guys want to be screened in advance for future visits. No one gives a crap about a cancellation policy, personally I laugh at those. An appointment was never set to begin with. Like, how exactly does the ****** expect to collect the money anyways if he chooses not to pay? The guy doesn't have to pay shit to a ****** just because she "says so". Her ass didn't even do anything to earn the money. If I were a guy, I'd make a bunch of handles and NCNS the ****** and run up some $50 tabs. What's she gonna do about it? All she does is reference check anyways... At the end of the day, she has more to lose pissing the wrong mofo off

[Panda9184]

You can see by your own admission that it was "good to go" and you still didn't (immediately) set an appointment after she did her part but apparently you wasn't serious.

I can see the problem already.

ill have to disagree here. Without further context, there is no indication of time pass between when he sent his reference to when the reply was "good to go". I maybe wrong but the culture in this forum seem to be shorter notice appointments. Perhaps, he was looking for something within the day or next day or two and the provider wasnt able to get back with the "good to go" before that time and has already made other plans. Also, he maybe also busy with work schedule that he is unable to book within a day or two during that time and didnt wanna commit anything till next week or month and dont wanna schedule something too far ahead as many providers also do not schedule that far ahead as well. Personally, i dont see this as a time waster thing to do.

Anyways, yea it really not smart for only 50 bucks to ruin future business and personal reputation. This is just my view on this correct me if i am wrong tho

[Universal]

I agree that someone shouldn't charge for an appointment that didn't take place. AMEN

But I can't tell a traveling provider not to take deposits or cancellation fees because airfare/traveling, hotel rooms expenses add up.

We have no way of knowing the whole story without her version. Unfortunately


The Christmas lights are beautiful ... Just saying

[pumpernickel]

Regardless of what happened, a ****** desperate for $50 is obviously not doing something right. He's got the money and there is pussy galore in this industry. A lot of guys want to be screened in advance for future visits. No one gives a crap about a cancellation policy, personally I laugh at those. An appointment was never set to begin with. Like, how exactly does the ****** expect to collect the money anyways if he chooses not to pay? The guy doesn't have to pay shit to a ****** just because she "says so". Her ass didn't even do anything to earn the money. If I were a guy, I'd make a bunch of handles and NCNS the ****** and run up some $50 tabs. What's she gonna do about it? All she does is reference check anyways... At the end of the day, she has more to lose pissing the wrong mofo off

Shit. Spoken like a true hobbyist. But exactly this.

So many of you guys require detailed lengthy ass screening. Nothing's ever immediate, makes sense to send ahead of time get screened a few days later than circle up. The diligence of it is appreciated, but absolutely retarded. Sorry for my poor use of words, but these long lasting "screenings" where you talk to a provider who saw them? What logic is that? What if that guy is a pimp, and that provider was his girl. He's meeting up with you, to try to bring you in or cause havoc? Do you even know this provider enough to trust her? There's no logic in it. And then cancellation fees, lawd. I've had one girl tell me I need to pay her cause I wouldn't reveal what car I was in so appointment was cancelled. Uh wtf, I'll meet you in the room. You don't need my car info.

[Italia DiBella]

Dayumm
He asked a simple question for advice.
No need to burn him at the stake and turn this into court.
Geezus

[Alyssa XOXO]

And he's receiving advice. All you've done is pop in and out. He's laughing, as he should

[Universal]

At this point I am laughing also.
I ask men who they have seen because some girls (don't screen) at all, my personal screening isn't based on just that..... Screening can be an accumulation of (many) things.

Some great points to consider in this discussion.

[Bankshots]

And he's receiving advice. All you've done is pop in and out. He's laughing, as he should

Gotta see which way the wind is blowing.

[winchhandle]

Sir, it makes no sense that you would contact a provider and not be ready to set an appointment or at least (schedule) for that week.
If every man contacted us in a day acting (indecisive) we are dealing with time wasters. Just being direct.
Happy Holidays

I was hoping you would consider her feelings & time as a provider but apparently I was wrong.

No, it wasn't me you are speaking about. Just letting the readers know since people love to speculate.

This is my normal method I am sorry if you feel it wastes time. I understand the need to screen but it takes a unknown amount of time . My schedule is very full I can't commit to a specific time at the drop of a hat. Sometimes it takes weeks to get a opening in my schedule that I can commit to and usually it ocurs without a lot of notice. So i routinely pre-screen then schedule something a few weeks later. I have that issue right now. I pre-screened and a few weeks later I tried to schedule a meet but she couldn't meet at that time. Another hole in my schedule didn't open up before I caught Covid. I have recovered from Covid except for a cough. When it gets better I will try and schedule again. So in that case it has been like 2 months since I contacted her.

[Allaboutthebbbj]

At this point I am laughing also.
I ask men who they have seen because some girls (don't screen) at all, my personal screening isn't based on just that..... Screening can be an accumulation of (many) things.

Some great points to consider in this discussion.

This girl didnt screen at all. Within one minute of me sending her my references she replied we were good to go (red flag). So I told her I would contact her when I was able to get in to see her and it could possibly be the next day but I could not see her the same day. The next day she text me saying we had an appointment and I owed her $50 for NCNS or she would put an alert on me. I told her to do what she felt was best. Of course I have proof of this conversation in my texts. Posting that is a no no though. Hope this better helps you to understand

[JessieJane]

This girl didnt screen at all. Within one minute of me sending her my references she replied we were good to go (red flag). So I told her I would contact her when I was able to get in to see her and it could possibly be the next day but I could not see her the same day. The next day she text me saying we had an appointment and I owed her $50 for NCNS or she would put an alert on me. I told her to do what she felt was best. Of course I have proof of this conversation in my texts. Posting that is a no no though. Hope this better helps you to understand

You continue to address someone whom you dont name and you have a issue with ...
why dont u just name her so she can respond and put a end to this complaint you have posted in coed?

[Alyssa XOXO]

This girl didnt screen at all. Within one minute of me sending her my references she replied we were good to go (red flag). So I told her I would contact her when I was able to get in to see her and it could possibly be the next day but I could not see her the same day. The next day she text me saying we had an appointment and I owed her $50 for NCNS or she would put an alert on me. I told her to do what she felt was best. Of course I have proof of this conversation in my texts. Posting that is a no no though. Hope this better helps you to understand

Babe you don't need to do more than what you've done. This is a ****** board with ******s. You're the Client. She knows who she is. If she's too scared to come on this thread and speak up for herself, screw her. You're not the first she's pulled this on and you definitely won't be the last. Like I said, if she's crying about $50, she's obviously hurting financially. Keep hobbying and chunk the deuce to the ****** Have a great day!

[Allaboutthebbbj]

You continue to address someone whom you dont name and you have a issue with ...
why dont u just name her so she can respond and put a end to this complaint you have posted in coed?

I didnt see where anyone addressed you. I guess you are my #1 fan since you claimed I was blocked yet here you are replying to an answer I gave to someone else. Classic troll

[The Water Company ~]

Some providers screen and sometimes it takes a while.

from what you shared, you seemed to be a gentleman in your initial contact. i'm also fine w/the pre-screening process, it works better for me and saves me time in my situation.
happy hobbying Allaboutthebbbj :)

[Universal]

Bbbj,
All that screening is useless when you pop-up (months later) at the last minute because you have a hectic schedule. Most providers want (current) vouches and the process could start over again.
Just some advice.
You haven't been here that long & women aren't familiar with you.
Join date in 2019.
Happy Holidays