It sounds like you’re expecting the men to be sitting around waiting for you to respond, and assuming they can all drop what they’re doing to see you. I know it’s hard for me to pre book (especially on a dime like that) because I have a SO, a job, and other obligations outside of those two. I understand it can be frustrating, but at the same time, I don’t think it’s right to insinuate this being an us problem.