Originally Posted by
Lil Oral Annie
This isn't meant harshly or anything, but you MIGHT be in the wrong occupation, dear.
This business is about making the client feel good, asking him what he wants, and not expecting him to do everything. Hell, from everything I've heard all these years, most of these guys have to do everything with their significant others anyway, so they want to be pampered.
Even if you aren't "feeling" him, your job is to act like you are. If you must be attracted, and you aren't, then you should tell him you're sorry, but you're unable to fulfill the appointment, and then ask him to leave, and don't expect any kind of payment since you cancelled the appointment. A lot of this job is acting. But I hate to tell you this.... you won't be attracted to every one of your clients.
I was once a shy girl too.... but with this job, you have to break out of that shell. You should do the same, or I'm afraid that you might not last too long in this business.