I get it's seducing her mind. But if I'm making myself squirt (the way I do). I have these thoughts, what if he's ready for me to be done so he can get his?

I never get negative feedback it's only a mental thing for me. I have guys see me just because they want to see me squirt. I'm good at it.

Is there any point a guy thinks "this is taking to long"?

I can take 20-30 minutes while enjoying myself at times lol