Sure sweetheart.
Bbbj for males is statistically 0% under most conditions other than some extreme blood contact in the mouth but saliva neutralizes a lot of it so it has to be fairly obvious. Sores on the penis could also contribute if there are any open lesions where blood is present. I would be careful for this reason & pay attention to who you engage with, their condition, yours, etc.
Bbbj for females ranges from as low as 0% to as high as .04% (that same 1 in 2,500 exposures).
Factors that increase a woman's chances while performing BBBJ:
- Blood in her mouth/gums
- Other sores in her mouth, cold sores, oral ulcers
- Lesions or blood/pustules present on penis
- Ejaculation in mouth (this is "theoretically" possible only if conditions are right such as sores in mouth, ulcers in mouth, but even then many studies show that saliva neutralizes it, even with blood present depending on blood volume)
Many studies are still inconclusive. However, I've found enough data, from the CDC as well, even though they too list it as
"exceptionally low risk", that I don't feel comfortable calling it absolute 0 risk. Nothing is absolute zero. Not for man or woman. But, yes, the chances are extremely low. Various studies do report
statistically zero risk.
You should always inspect your partner. Even a simple inconspicuous eyeballing can be the difference from statistically zero and up to .04%. As long as there is no obvious blood or open sores, man's penis or in/around woman's mouth, then it's statistically
extremely close to zero. The caveat is depending on those factors above it could be as low as 0, as low as 1 in 30,000, or extreme cases with obvious blood/open sores, as high as .04% (1 in 2,500 exposures).
Being sick will increase your chances too. Whether it's another minor std or simply the cold. It suppresses your immune system, lowers killer T cell counts, etc. I wouldn't engage in bbbj if either one is sick, has a cold, bleeding gums, mouth ulcer, cold sores, sores in mouth, any obvious blood or lesion on penis.