Flirting

[Austin Ellen]

I love those short little glances! That eye contact and grinning in that sexy way and then doing it back to that person. It makes me feel alive!!

:p Damn that was fast!

Quoted me before I got to edit stalking to talking lol.

Ok so stalking too I guess..
like when someone who’s interested in you kinda loiters in your perimeter.

#magnetism

Y’all ever look back and analyze how a person danced around you in your peripherals and short glances and the way they moved in to approached you (or didn’t, bc of inappropriate circumstance like they’re on the job or their SO is there lol)? Fun stuff.

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Mark, I agree 100 percent!

Great topic, Ellen.

I love to flirt because it's fun and exciting and leads to more fun and excitement. One of the great things about the hobby is that you can go full throttle into flirting, whereas in civilian life there are a lot of unwritten rules about how much is too much in a given situation.

Things move quickly in the hobby world, and it starts with the initial introduction, when you establish who you are, what you're like, and what you have in mind for the other person. Ads are a classic example, and also the first communication from the guys expressing interest in a gal. The ads are all about attracting guys, and the guys' response is more about establishing that they are safe, fun, and seriously interested in spending time/money with the gal.

Compliments go a long way toward making a connection, especially when they are sincere. If a gal gets the message that she will be respected and appreciated throughout the encounter, then both parties are very likely to have a lot more fun. And if the guy gets the message that the gal is having fun, that makes him feel like a stud, and he's more likely to be a repeat visitor.

Words of encouragement, expressing interest in your partner's experience, appreciative glances, expressions of delight, and considerate touch are all a part of making the experience unforgettable and highly charged with excitement. I probably missed a few things, but it's all part of the chemistry that makes for a mind-gobbling experience.