Sex with an escort is not cheating - CHANGEMYMIND

[octobergrey]

Being poly is the way to go IMO. The whole idea of monogamy is kinda crazy, if you think about it. There ARE a lot of hot people out there and just because you find someone to have a relationship with, doesn’t mean that everyone suddenly stopped being hot. If my girl sees a hot guy, who am I to reprimand her NATURAL feeling of wanting to fuck him? I want to fuck hot women too! It’s a natural feel where as monogamy is a choice. Just because you’ve decided to become a vegetarian, doesn’t mean bacon stopped smelling delicious.

My 2 cents....

[ARIEL BLISS]

The idea of a poly relationship intrigues me greatly... you men saying that you want or would be intololyamorous dating: would you have any reluctance with the female reciprocating or is there a double standard there? As I feel (and I could very well be very wrong, no offense is intended this is simply my own speculation based on what I’ve heard or seen from men before) ) many men wouldn’t be as drawn to the aspect of the woman being casual in her affairs.. if you said yes, would you go so far to say you’d be okay with your mate being a provider?. Why or why not? however maybe you hobbyists are a lot more progressive than I give y’all credit for c: this is a nice little fantasy I like to think about (tried gf and a bf at same time, and Ed while I was providing and it was not the fun sexy free spirited romp I’d imagined at all)

Anyway interesting tread, thanks will be lurking and thinking lol

[mathguy]

Hrmmm... screw this thread. Hahahaha. I'm not gonna even start except to say I'm not going to start

[Island_Gent]

Sex with an #escort/#companion/#****** (#payforplay$) is not cheating. #CHANGEMYMIND


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It ain’t...if it remains transactional and there are no romantic feelings involved. I like to think of it as compartmentalisation, and it’s allowed me to indulge in this playground, guilt free all these years.

[Austin Ellen]

This and me too.

It ain’t...if it remains transactional and there are no romantic feelings involved. I like to think of it as compartmentalisation, and it’s allowed me to indulge in this playground, guilt free all these years.

[Babyboomer46]

If your wife was screwing male escorts would you consider that cheating or just a compartmentalized transaction? It’s all in one’s perspective. We all look for reasons to justify actions we know may be hurtful to others.

[GeorgeDRII]

Everyone has their own perception of it. Whether a person thinks it's cheating or not is solely up to that person. Now societal views are in my opinion not showing the true thoughts of "close" minded people. Open minded people i believe are, well being truthful to themselves first. The truth is all in each individuals thoughts. Cheating or not, it's up to each of us ourselves

[LovelyEvelyn]

The keys to any relationship are honesty and communication.

A good percentage are obviously not honest with their SOs but I really feel like some long held beliefs about monogamy need to die.

[Eva69]

Being poly is the way to go IMO. The whole idea of monogamy is kinda crazy, if you think about it. There ARE a lot of hot people out there and just because you find someone to have a relationship with, doesn’t mean that everyone suddenly stopped being hot. If my girl sees a hot guy, who am I to reprimand her NATURAL feeling of wanting to fuck him? I want to fuck hot women too! It’s a natural feel where as monogamy is a choice. Just because you’ve decided to become a vegetarian, doesn’t mean bacon stopped smelling delicious.

My 2 cents....

Agreed!