Sex with an #escort/#companion/#****** (#payforplay$) is not cheating. #CHANGEMYMIND
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Sex with an #escort/#companion/#****** (#payforplay$) is not cheating. #CHANGEMYMIND
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Truthfully I don't think it is. If I was married or in a serious relationship I would rather my man pay for play then to mess around & have a emotional relationship with another female. With a escort usually no real "feelings" are there,he sees her they do their thing & goodbye till next time. That's just my opinion & I tend to have totally different views on lots of things.
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I think a lot of it comes down to how would you feel if you found out your spouse is doing the same thing and do you want to risk destroying their life.
It doesn’t matter what the ‘cheater’ or person doing the act thinks of it, you cannot define other’s feelings and reactions to a situation. What matters is does your spouse view it as cheating. You can tell them all day it isn’t cheating but you won’t be mending a broken heart by saying their heartache is based on a lack of comprehension.
Everyone should just be poly. It's SO much easier and less emotionally draining
I don’t think it is. My wife had a different opinion. However, she agreed that hobbying was better than an affair. We both agreed on that.
James
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Ask your wife what she thinks!
For some odd reason, most wifes do not agree.
Once though in Amsterdam, my wife actually let me try out the Red Light District.
We never talked about it, but I was happy as Hell!
Being poly is the way to go IMO. The whole idea of monogamy is kinda crazy, if you think about it. There ARE a lot of hot people out there and just because you find someone to have a relationship with, doesn’t mean that everyone suddenly stopped being hot. If my girl sees a hot guy, who am I to reprimand her NATURAL feeling of wanting to fuck him? I want to fuck hot women too! It’s a natural feel where as monogamy is a choice. Just because you’ve decided to become a vegetarian, doesn’t mean bacon stopped smelling delicious.
My 2 cents....
The idea of a poly relationship intrigues me greatly... you men saying that you want or would be intololyamorous dating: would you have any reluctance with the female reciprocating or is there a double standard there? As I feel (and I could very well be very wrong, no offense is intended this is simply my own speculation based on what I’ve heard or seen from men before) ) many men wouldn’t be as drawn to the aspect of the woman being casual in her affairs.. if you said yes, would you go so far to say you’d be okay with your mate being a provider?. Why or why not? however maybe you hobbyists are a lot more progressive than I give y’all credit for c: this is a nice little fantasy I like to think about (tried gf and a bf at same time, and Ed while I was providing and it was not the fun sexy free spirited romp I’d imagined at all)
Anyway interesting tread, thanks will be lurking and thinking lol
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If your wife was screwing male escorts would you consider that cheating or just a compartmentalized transaction? It’s all in one’s perspective. We all look for reasons to justify actions we know may be hurtful to others.
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