I feel your pain my brother I have also experienced very similar situations like you with other ladies but I haven't have the guts to post anything negative on the ladies like you said just give them benefit of the doubt because life happens and there's nothing we can do about it and like you I live far away from the City and it takes me at least 70 minutes to get the appointment site as a minimum so I always plan ahead and always try to be on time for respect to the ladies and they time