Quote Originally Posted by Island_Gent View Post
Just an fyi, not sure about other mongers, but I’ve always cringed at being called “babe” “hon” “sweetie” and especially “daddy” by a provider. Like nails on a chalkboard to me.

And don’t attempt dirty talk if your IOP ain’t on point, you’ll sound inauthentic and ridiculous.

j/s

Quote Originally Posted by mathguy View Post
Yep yep yep. +1 a hundred times. Absolutely.

Be careful. Some of us guys are very good at seeing through the act. It's as easy as watching a silly porn star make all the goofy over the top super loud moans and super over the top extreme nasty talk with the funny facial expressions and attacking like a lion etc....

And I've been with some screamers in my time let me tell ya In both worlds. It's sexxxxxy. Mmm mmm. Damn sexy. When it's real. So it doesn't mean all super dirty talk or loud moans or yelling are over the top and inauthentic. It's grade A sexy AF when authentic!

It's just that any guy who is older than 20-25 and has been with more than a handful of girls is going to spot it a mile off unless it's real or you are very good at your ability to get into it and have an IOP that is at least close to real.
Totally agree. It has to be authentic or she has to be able to sell it as such. If it comes off as an act it's a huge turn off. Save the pet names at least til we get to know each other a little bit.