Originally Posted by
mathguy
There are a couple of things you can do right away.
The main thing is post more. Post a lot. Not just crap, no, but be active, post interesting, funny, complimenting, or contemplative topics.
If you are well known and posting things of value, complimenting, funny, and so on, over a period of time particularly, it's highly unlikely that you are not a legit hobbyist. Girls, as a result, will be much less likely to question your legitimacy (even if it's subconscious). LE, trolls, morons, dangerous people, and so on, typically don't have a good track record of posting or they don't post at all.
Second thing? Don't bring it up. Post, become an active member of the community (not only "review" active), talk to some of the girls, and just be a decent and nice guy. You will be very, very surprised at how many "not newbie friendly" girls will not even ask, or they won't care. BUT it's very much dependent on your communication style with them, how you approach them, and your activity on the forums. Or they may speak with you in various PMs or texts over a period days. It's highly unlikely anyone with less than good intentions is going to do that. The smart girls know this and will not care less about reviews at that point. The main issue you have right now is you are truly "new".
They use the "not newbie friendly" very similarly to how companies hiring for high level professional positions use the "must have a Ph.d in xyz and 8yrs experience". You don't need that in 99% of the cases. I can't tell you how many jobs in computer science I've had over the years where that was supposedly required. It's just a weeding out technique for those who are not fit anyway.
This culture is different, for sure. That was not a perfect analogy but it's similar. Basically you just have to prove that you are worth it, you are nice, you are legit, and you know how to treat a girl. You will do this by becoming more active in the community, even if just through your posting style and persona, learning how to communicate with girls, especially providers, and being a genuinely good and nice guy.
-mg