How to Contact an Escort Template :)

[SecretE]

Unfortunately with all the hobby changes due to recent laws passed, a guy doesn't know what a lady is willing to do presently, even if he has seen her in the past. I get that some women don't like "talking menu"...but this isn't sugaring where the interaction is more vague. This is "the hobby". Think it is more than fair for a guy to be able to ask about what they are getting, during screening. If a lady posts an ad, asking for some guy to do something explicit with her, most guys who are interested are going to flirt/schedule using similar level of language. You don't want us to express sexual intent, don't take it to that level in your ad.

[CubanAva]

You don't want us to express sexual intent, don't take it to that level in your ad.

No, darlin. We say the explicit stuff, so you dont have to. We say what we offer and what we do, so it does not have to be discussed. Though it is not sugaring, it is also not a drive thru menu and you dont just order what you want how you want it. You pull up to the restaurant because you're interested in seeing what they have, you make your order and you try something you've never tried before. Why? Because it could be the best damn meal you've ever had, because you got it the way that it came, the way it was meant to be. It wouldnt be the same had you customized and altered it to your specific tastes, because it wouldnt be natural for it to come that.
Dont ruin the experience by having a check list.

[SecretE]

No, darlin. We say the explicit stuff, so you dont have to. We say what we offer and what we do, so it does not have to be discussed. Though it is not sugaring, it is also not a drive thru menu and you dont just order what you want how you want it. You pull up to the restaurant because you're interested in seeing what they have, you make your order and you try something you've never tried before. Why? Because it could be the best damn meal you've ever had, because you got it the way that it came, the way it was meant to be. It wouldnt be the same had you customized and altered it to your specific tastes, because it wouldnt be natural for it to come that.
Dont ruin the experience by having a check list.

Even restaurants still have menus, and most are willing to make changes/substitutions...and if I were to try something new on recommendation and send it back, most wouldn't charge me for the menu item. :-) I guess in my nearly 20 years, having great interactions with over 250 ladies (and seeing most of the pitfalls a guy has to go through), I have a different experience and perspective of this hobby.

[CubanAva]

Even restaurants still have menus, and most are willing to make changes/substitutions...
you make your order and you try something you've never tried before. Why? Because it could be the best damn meal you've ever had, because you got it the way that it came, the way it was meant to be. It wouldnt be the same had you customized and altered it to your specific tastes,
and if I were to try something new on recommendation and send it back, most wouldn't charge me for the menu item. :-)
You send things back because you don't like them? Not because they were made poorly or the quality wasn't on point with the price, simply because you just dont like it? Also, if the restuarant comped every meal because of someone not liking it, I think others would catch on and claim the same, just to get a free meal. It's about the quality and experience, your personal taste is relative and can be catered to during the visit.
I guess in my nearly 20 years, having great interactions with over 250 ladies (and seeing most of the pitfalls a guy has to go through), I have a different experience and perspective of this hobby.

You definitely do, which is perfectly fine.
It's not black and white, we all prefer different things, which is why there are so many options.
Like I've had a guy text me twice saying "do you cater to AA men" I've ignored it both times. Why? Because that's not the way to start a conversation. It's easy to say "hello..."

[mathguy]

You definitely do, which is perfectly fine.
It's not black and white, we all prefer different things, which is why there are so many options.
Like I've had a guy text me twice saying "do you cater to AA men" I've ignored it both times. Why? Because that's not the way to start a conversation. It's easy to say "hello..."

+1 Yup. This. Read fellars. Be a decent gentleman. That is, unless, OR, more importantly, *until* she doesn't want you to be a decent gentlemen Possibly b/c she has come to know you or has been talking to you and wants to ramp it up with serious flirtation and playfulness (for those who are still in the Cro-magnon or Neanderthal stage that *might* mean nudes, explicit talk, or extremely flirtatious excitable talk, etc...). Common sense boys. Use the one up top before the one down below. Even *here*. I guarantee if you do that you will be more successful. Trust me. I know. I really really do. You should listen up

[Ava In Austin]

Hmmm...to bring the thread back to the OP topic. Again, the template was posted as an easy tool for newbies to use in this realm. And, it was intentionally posted where even the public can read it. So like CubanAva noted, "it's easy to say Hello"... however, for those who prefer not to wing-it, there is now a template that can be used. Plus it comes with numerous provider endorsements!

I will note that some of the initial feedback from the gentlemen on how a lady replies was informative. So, I encourage any gentleman to start a separate thread on that along with the other topics brought up. After all, it is about enhancing each other's experience here and BCD ;)

[The Infamous One]

Good points on both sides. I just assume people know what to expect from me after the 100’s of reviews and being around so long, but most of our histories (client & provider) are all but gone. Factor in name changes, different handles on different boards, the new laws etc. and we are left with a lot of uncertainty and confusion. I agree with Ava that I may write explicit things, so you don’t have to. An ounce of prevention is better than a pound of pain, legally, IMO.

Speaking solely for myself... I’m always going to be gfe and everything that entails. But I will deviate (switch up the menu to cater to client) based on a lot of things. It mostly depends on my mood and the chemistry. One day I might want gfe. Another day I may want pse and some weird fetish or long drawn out role play! Who knows?! I try to throw it up in my ads what I’m feeling that day. I try to make it known! $$$ is NOT the determining factor for me. It is ALL about how I am approached, communicated with & treated. The $$$ is secondary. I hardly have the energy to be fake for anyone anymore. I’m gonna be straight up about my expectations and boundaries. If I don’t think I’m going to click with a guy, then I simply don’t see them. If a guy asks “you avail” or can I stick it in your ass three times while you are upside down hanging from the ceiling fan, and act like I’m a circus sex monkey... I’ll probably just ignore that person.

I am open to suggestions and special requests, but there is way, time & place for everything (especially with these new laws). If a man can’t figure out that he shouldn’t act like a Neanderthal during screening or scheduling, then I don’t need to see him. That’s just me though. That’s why it’s great that there is so much variety. There is something for everyone. Personally, no SS, Greek or BBFS for me as a general rule. But hey... if I decide I want greek one week, I’ll throw it up in an ad.