How to Contact an Escort Template :)

[Ava In Austin]

This is for those who need a little help in this area.

Gentlemen, did you know that ladies really appreciate it when you contact them in a direct manner, which includes a few specific details? Well, we really do! Below are a couple of templates that you can cut, paste, and then fill in when contacting a lady. Using either one will differentiate you as more of a gentleman who is serious with his enquiry.

And Ladies, what would you prefer in an initial correspondence from a gentleman? Post your own copy and paste template here for them to use!

For a Newbie:
Hi (the lady’s name),
I saw your ad on (website) and I would like to meet up with you on (date & time). I am (your age and physical description) who works in the (your profession) sector. I am new to this. Let me know what is needed to move forward in getting together.

For the Experienced Gentleman in this realm:
Hi (the lady’s name),
I saw your ad on (website) and I would like to meet up with you on (date & time). I am (your age and physical description) who works in the (your profession) sector.
Below are my references and let me know if need additional information.
OH2 Handle:
P411 Handle:
Provider Name
Her Location (city)
What site she advertises on
Last time you saw her
The email and phone number she would associate you with.

[Austin Ellen]

Good stuff gentlemen. Thank you for posting this Ava.

This is for those who need a little help in this area.

Gentlemen, did you know that ladies really appreciate it when you contact them in a direct manner, which includes a few specific details? Well, we really do! Below are a couple of templates that you can cut, paste, and then fill in when contacting a lady. Using either one will differentiate you as more of a gentleman who is serious with his enquiry.

And Ladies, what would you prefer in an initial correspondence from a gentleman? Post your own copy and paste template here for them to use!

For a Newbie:
Hi (the lady’s name),
I saw your ad on (website) and I would like to meet up with you on (date & time). I am (your age and physical description) who works in the (your profession) sector. I am new to this. Let me know what is needed to move forward in getting together.

For the Experienced Gentleman in this realm:
Hi (the lady’s name),
I saw your ad on (website) and I would like to meet up with you on (date & time). I am (your age and physical description) who works in the (your profession) sector.
Below are my references and let me know if need additional information.
OH2 Handle:
P411 Handle:
Provider Name
Her Location (city)
What site she advertises on
Last time you saw her
The email and phone number she would associate you with.

[britttany_love]

This is for those who need a little help in this area.

Gentlemen, did you know that ladies really appreciate it when you contact them in a direct manner, which includes a few specific details? Well, we really do! Below are a couple of templates that you can cut, paste, and then fill in when contacting a lady. Using either one will differentiate you as more of a gentleman who is serious with his enquiry.

And Ladies, what would you prefer in an initial correspondence from a gentleman? Post your own copy and paste template here for them to use!

For a Newbie:
Hi (the lady’s name),
I saw your ad on (website) and I would like to meet up with you on (date & time). I am (your age and physical description) who works in the (your profession) sector. I am new to this. Let me know what is needed to move forward in getting together.

For the Experienced Gentleman in this realm:
Hi (the lady’s name),
I saw your ad on (website) and I would like to meet up with you on (date & time). I am (your age and physical description) who works in the (your profession) sector.
Below are my references and let me know if need additional information.
OH2 Handle:
P411 Handle:
Provider Name
Her Location (city)
What site she advertises on
Last time you saw her
The email and phone number she would associate you with.

Thank you Ava this is exactly how I like to be contacted. If guys would follow these examples screening would be so much easy and quicker and the on to the fun. Nothing worse than 10 or so back and forth messages because they guy csnt send it all together. After a few messages of it's not all included I just lose interest.

[NikkiGhost]

This really is helpful, a month ago I had never screened but having a recent scare changed all of that. I really do appreciate the ladies in the hobby that share stuff like this.

[SweetArielRae]

Now only if guys could actually read and follow such detailed requests. Thumbs up to the ones that actually know how to approach ladies in this line of work. But we all know this will never happened. You have the ones that care to read and follow directions and then you have the ones that don’t think with the right head.

[DragonX]

Seems like this could be made a sticky? Good info and makes sense.
DragonX

[3daygetaway]

Most of us know providers do not want to receive a “hey baby“ or “you available?” We understand providers want a more thorough and professional approach, however, we would appreciate more too.

I have written many such greetings only to receive in response: A cut and paste list of rates and services or *crickets*

There have been several providers thank me for my interest, ask for some clarification of my interest, had a specific reference policy they wanted me to follow, Etc—All professional but none generated any level of excitement for the session. Providers come on strong in their advertisements but come across very cold in their communication, thus my interest often wanes after receiving such curt responses to my warm greeting.

If you find yourself reading this and thinking “I don’t have time to respond to everyone in a personalized, seductive manner,“ step outside of yourself for a moment and try and see this objectively: providers are asking for something they are unwilling to give themselves.

This critique goes both ways: Men, we must understand that while this is a transaction, it is not a vending machine. Entice your providers with a cogent, polite, and thorough introduction. Providers, be true to the image you project in all your communication.

[DragonX]

Most of us know providers do not want to receive a “hey baby“ or “you available?” We understand providers want a more thorough and professional approach, however, we would appreciate more too.

I have written many such greetings only to receive in response: A cut and paste list of rates and services or *crickets*

There have been several providers thank me for my interest, ask for some clarification of my interest, had a specific reference policy they wanted me to follow, Etc—All professional but none generated any level of excitement for the session. Providers come on strong in their advertisements but come across very cold in their communication, thus my interest often wanes after receiving such curt responses to my warm greeting.

If you find yourself reading this and thinking “I don’t have time to respond to everyone in a personalized, seductive manner,“ step outside of yourself for a moment and try and see this objectively: providers are asking for something they are unwilling to give themselves.

This critique goes both ways: Men, we must understand that while this is a transaction, it is not a vending machine. Entice your providers with a cogent, polite, and thorough introduction. Providers, be true to the image you project in all your communication.

Well put!!!!
DragonX

[Chencho]

Been using this guideline since the good old ASPD days. It really helps :)

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Most of us know providers do not want to receive a “hey baby“ or “you available?” We understand providers want a more thorough and professional approach, however, we would appreciate more too.

I have written many such greetings only to receive in response: A cut and paste list of rates and services or *crickets*

There have been several providers thank me for my interest, ask for some clarification of my interest, had a specific reference policy they wanted me to follow, Etc—All professional but none generated any level of excitement for the session. Providers come on strong in their advertisements but come across very cold in their communication, thus my interest often wanes after receiving such curt responses to my warm greeting.

If you find yourself reading this and thinking “I don’t have time to respond to everyone in a personalized, seductive manner,“ step outside of yourself for a moment and try and see this objectively: providers are asking for something they are unwilling to give themselves.

This critique goes both ways: Men, we must understand that while this is a transaction, it is not a vending machine. Entice your providers with a cogent, polite, and thorough introduction. Providers, be true to the image you project in all your communication.

Ditto!

[Daniel Larusso]

Most of us know providers do not want to receive a “hey baby“ or “you available?” We understand providers want a more thorough and professional approach, however, we would appreciate more too.

I have written many such greetings only to receive in response: A cut and paste list of rates and services or *crickets*

There have been several providers thank me for my interest, ask for some clarification of my interest, had a specific reference policy they wanted me to follow, Etc—All professional but none generated any level of excitement for the session. Providers come on strong in their advertisements but come across very cold in their communication, thus my interest often wanes after receiving such curt responses to my warm greeting.

If you find yourself reading this and thinking “I don’t have time to respond to everyone in a personalized, seductive manner,“ step outside of yourself for a moment and try and see this objectively: providers are asking for something they are unwilling to give themselves.

This critique goes both ways: Men, we must understand that while this is a transaction, it is not a vending machine. Entice your providers with a cogent, polite, and thorough introduction. Providers, be true to the image you project in all your communication.

Bravo!

[Ava In Austin]

Good exchange and I liked hearing the male point of view of being on the receiving end of various replies from providers. It is something for the ladies to take into consideration.

When I searched the Internet, I found plenty of “what to expect,” “code of conduct” and “what not to say or do” with an escort. I did not find a template for initiating contact. And, that is the reason I started the thread in a forum that even non-members (gentlemen without experience) can read.

[Daniel Larusso]

Good exchange and I liked hearing the male point of view of being on the receiving end of various replies from providers. It is something for the ladies to take into consideration.

When I searched the Internet, I found plenty of “what to expect,” “code of conduct” and “what not to say or do” with an escort. I did not find a template for initiating contact. And, that is the reason I started the thread in a forum that even non-members (gentlemen without experience) can read.

Definitely good to hear both sides Ava. I do have one thing to mention to the providers. Keep in mind that sometimes we're at work or maybe even messaging while the wife is in the kitchen or something. Bear with us if we don't have absolutely everything you need in the exact manner you want it in one fell swoop. Thanks again!

[AlexandraSand]

Great tread.
This is exactly what I like to receive in the original request! Handle/name, description of person/personality and references. Date/time/place of a meeting.

PLEASE INCLUDE LINKS to referenced provider listing! It is frustrating to search through multiple directories and sort through similar names of providers.
I like to contact providers via e-mail or PM.
She(or I) can copy/paste name and search her notes. That is not very convenient to do on the phone.
Plus, how would the referenced provider know to whom she responds with sensitive information about her client through cellphone? She could not see that I am verified provider. I will not send links to my info, for her to verify to whom she answers on sms. What if you gave me wrong number? What if the number has changed?

I also like, when guys follow the links we provide. Most of the information will be listed there and most of the questions are also answered there.

Do your leg work, as I do mine. Give respect and you will receive it back.

MHO

[mrhappysf]

So just an FYI - P411 members (men) have been instructed to never give out our handle, just use the P411 system for screening/appointments. Not sure exactly why, but that is how it has been for as long as I've been a member there.

[zmonator]

So just an FYI - P411 members (men) have been instructed to never give out our handle, just use the P411 system for screening/appointments. Not sure exactly why, but that is how it has been for as long as I've been a member there.

Soon P411 will provide us with a link with our Profile/Bio/Picture/Okays etc. that can be send to ladies on other sites. They just added another 20+ questions for us to answer for providers. Besides P411 (10 years) I've started a presence on ECCIE. I like this site better then ECCIE because the ladies are hotter like Ava. Unless a lady here also has a P411 account I won't make any contacts here until that link is fired up.