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    That’s exactly right. It’s the passion and intimacy. And the anticipation is always a great part of it. But, I bet if most guys were honest no matter how macho they act, they’d tell you they are looking for connection and intimacy. Feeling wanted and desired without it seemingly being staged (though we always know it is). Just a great SAFE escape.

    Quote Originally Posted by SexyJess View Post
    Thank u for being open and sharing :-)
    So, let's say a girl knocks on your door then and as u open it, u get a big smile, and then the most PASSIONATE kiss you've ever had. Would that be too forward? I think passion and or intimacy is what's lacking in everyone's personal life, even for the providers. I know that anytime I enter a home, or room, I try to keep that in mind. For me, passion, unexpected passion is what gets me going! <3

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    Quote Originally Posted by DramOfGlen View Post
    Mental: Wit, banter, sarcasm, humor. Your brain is the most powerful sex organ
    Physical: Kissing, if you greet me with a seductive smile and a (good) kiss. Ooooof

    Take your time. Don't just rip off your dress and try to speedrun the date. It ain't Mario Kart lol. No one gets an award for being the quickest to get to the finish line. Journey's just as important as the destination
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    Quote Originally Posted by britttany_love View Post
    I know this is for the guys.. but for me I love when a guy tells me his is going to CUM. It's like an internal orgasm for me!

    It's such a turn on in that moment to lock eyes and know that you are the reason he is about to unload. I wish more guys were vocal when they were about to orgasm. This is a huge turn on for me. I want to see you tense up, feel the build up and the explosion.
    What if I also said "Oh my GOD, this feels soooooo good!" about 75 times before that?

    Because based on your reviews, I think that's what would happen.

    Okay, back to the original question; I really get turned on when the woman I'm with has an orgasm.
    I like extreme teasing, prostate massage and light bondage - you know, the usual

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    Quote Originally Posted by BoSox1918 View Post
    What if I also said "Oh my GOD, this feels soooooo good!" about 75 times before that?

    Because based on your reviews, I think that's what would happen.

    Okay, back to the original question; I really get turned on when the woman I'm with has an orgasm.
    Words or sounds.. as long as there is something!!!

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    THISSSS!! Most men think theyre only visual creatures, but the amount that are for more into wordssss is insane! Like say the right thing and they instanty cum!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mayamonroe23 View Post
    THISSSS!! Most men think theyre only visual creatures, but the amount that are for more into wordssss is insane! Like say the right thing and they instanty cum!
    Oh. My. Gawd.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mayamonroe23 View Post
    THISSSS!! Most men think theyre only visual creatures, but the amount that are for more into wordssss is insane! Like say the right thing and they instanty cum!
    No lies detected here.
    My regular thing can make me pop on command.
    She holds her tits and looks at me and does keagles and says, "you dont feel like you are going to last very long tonight, what's wrong, cant handle some hot wet tight pussy..."

    I pop in seconds.
    If she hadn't said anything Id go a few more mins.
    Honestly.

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    Soft moaning really makes me weak at the knees. I love it!


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    Dirty talk and pse behavior. If I'm seeing a provider I want above and beyond what I can get by grabbing a date from a dating website. I'm super into dirty talk but most girls feel akward about it so if you can do this, nothing excites or turns me on more.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SexyJess View Post
    Is it the actual act of getting to pick the girl?
    The anticipation of meeting one of us and wondering how good we are?
    Is it the actual act of?

    Tell me :-) I want to know!
    This is a wonderfully interesting question, Jess! I'm going to answer from my angle and try to address as many factors as I can.

    In a nutshell all 3 things you asked about are turn-ons and reasons for many guys who come to a hobby site or board. Being able to "pick" is a big deal but it's not just about her body. Its about everything. I am evaluating her every bit as much as she is evaluating me when we text or talk on the phone in the beginning getting to know each other.

    A super rude girl that doesn't want to say 2 words or gets mad after 2 or 3 simple (and short) back and forths and wants a deposit "to make sure you are not wasting her time....." (or whatever the case) is an obvious "no go" no matter how hot or cute. Even if she is physically the pinnacle of your desires, and supposedly based on reviews she's the epitome of your most cherished fetishes. Why? Well, the bottom line is she's essentially "kind of a bitch" who thinks far too much of herself to show someone the same courtesy she herself desires.

    Many guys will be ok with that and put up with it. They will kowtow. I will not. I don't need to. I wish more guys had this confidence. The thing is, yes, picking a person that is physically your type, also socially your type, that you appear to have chemistry with too, the whole shebang, is absolutely a turn-on. It's also a timesaver and money saver in the long run.

    I don't visit Oh2 (or any other site) because I *need* to. Lol, no way. I could date virtually anyone (within reason of course, obviously not celebrities, totally inaccessible social circles, etc... and certain age range restrictions and so on). But yea more or less anyone from a solid average of a "5-6" all the way to the "7, 8, 9, & 10s". I do it b/c it cuts through all the BS when I'm in need of physical AND social intimacy.

    Even in traditional dating or using online dating services I can't stand the waiting and red tape. Its such a waste of both of our valuable time. I want to get to know right away if we match not only socially, socioeconomically, and academically or with shared interests but JUST as important and quickly I want to know our chemistry level and our physical attraction and compatibility. I will basically lose interest in a girl even in traditional dating if it gets beyond 1-2 dates without sex OR at least some kissing and making out happening. Hell, lots of times I lose interest even in the texting/phone conversation flirting phase before the first meetup/date if she always steers clear of any sexual flirting or sexual innuendo (innocuous or otherwise). Why? Not because I'm being a pig or misogynistic. Absolutely not. I consider myself extremely gentlemanly and I love & respect women. The reason is b/c if that hasn't/doesn't happen already then I know that this girl can't possibly be right for me. This is also why I like girls in this community. Its why I've dated dancers and some escorts. I like them better because I tend to like what society would typically label "bad girls".

    So I think it's all of those things you mentioned. It's the ability to quickly have physical & emotional & social intimacy needs met, with an attractive partner, and potentially someone you seem to have incredible chemistry with right off the bat just from talking or texting.

    And if you are not wanting or ready to date you don't have to have that weight on you that she might get attached. Also, yes, the anticipation of how she may perform are of course turn-ons that we may fantasize about.

    Quote Originally Posted by SexyJess View Post
    But for me, what turns me on is getting to see what sexy guy I get to play with. And I can't speak for any of the other girls on here, but when I unzip your pants and get a peak of what's inside, it's like Christmas all over again! Lol.
    One big turn on is when the first sentence of this statement above is actually true; meaning that it's quite obvious that she is very pleased or even very turned on or there is a palpable chemistry between you.

    Obviously this doesn't happen all the time, not even close. No matter how good any of us look, how well we clean up, or perform, or socialize/flirt (man or woman) there are some who will just not like the overall looks, communication style, or the preferred intimate acts & sexual styles.

    However, yes, I'd say it's a *massive* turn on when you know (it's so obvious) that they are totally into you and you share this chemistry. That makes for a mind blowing experience!

    A huge part of this is that what makes the experience great is knowing that she is also so pleased and enjoying herself and you. I'd rather spend my time with ANY 4 or 5 that really enjoyed our time together than spend it with an impeccable 10 who is just "going through the motions" and could care less, her mind is somewhere else, she's robotic, nothing is organic, etc.... Fuuuuuuuuuck that. Lol. No damn way. And I'm being extremely serious about that part. No effing way.
    -MG

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    When you ladies are either authentically into it or are convincing actors. A few weeks ago I was with a gal and thought we were done. We had both gotten out of the bed. She was standing at the end of the bed, looked over and asked me if I still had the condom on. I said yes not knowing why she asked. She then asked if I would bend her over the end of the bed and fuck her. That little interaction can run on a loop in my head some days. That was so incredibly hot to me.

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    For me when meeting anew provider the excitement of meeting a new person that makes me shake like a leaf in fall. I get all the way to the front door until I walk in and fell safe and welcomed

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mayamonroe23 View Post
    THISSSS!! Most men think theyre only visual creatures, but the amount that are for more into wordssss is insane! Like say the right thing and they instanty cum!
    You mean like
    " OH shit, he's home early!!"

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    Just saw this today...

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    Thought I had seen it all. This looks extremely hot. Love to try it in or out of this community.
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    Confidence, assertiveness, experience, playfulness, dirty talk, domination.

    Also safety, I prefer providers that never offer BB services. I even prefer CBJ really, it makes no difference with a bit of lube, and uncovered shit just stresses me out. Although I can't resist DATY / Face Sitting.

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