fwiw ... gents will always remember that ladies have RW lives much as the rest of the hobby world ...

and, true gents will always give the ladies a decent element of time awaiting a response and true gents will NEVER pester/bother/overload a lady's incoming media with multiple texts/DMs etc.

As noted above, if she hasn't been able to respond to an initial inquiry, just move on.

Always best when making an initial request to include the requested appointment time AND let the lady know that you a reply no later than XXX hour/day so you can make firm (no pun intended!) arrangements for the requested engagement. If her posts indicate certain requirements for screening/vouching, always best to include those in your initial communication.

Dudes! If your initial contact is only a couple of words -- you should expect not much in return if indeed there is a reply.