I like a connection, but if a guy says he doesn't want small talk before, I can do that. Rush him or just do it and figure out what he likes. Men are different than women, most don't want a connection, and that's fine. Kinda makes us less human, but it's the job right, adds to the exotic side of the hobby I guess. Certain things I won't do to create that illusion, but no small talk I can do if asked.