Originally Posted by
Suzanna Turner
Oh dear... let's see... I wonder if I can answer this without being long-winded...
What I have discovered over time are a few things...
First, the gents do not want us to go out of our way for them if it's going to cause us any issues such as running late or causing us to stress out. For the most part, they just want a relaxing stress free time for both parties. If the props are something that the lady enjoys, they are for it. If props are something that will cause the lady extra work and stress, they are not for it. Of course, I can not speak for all of our wonderful clients, but most of the ones I have been privileged to spend time with.
I am the most relaxed when I am myself, and I am not trying to impress anyone... I just present them myself. Who I am. Who they will see on return visits, each time. No makeup, comfortable but sensual clothing, no props but maybe I will have wine available to drink if it suits my schedule. There are LED candles in my incall... my incall roommate and girlfriend enjoys being very classy, and she operates differently then I do. We are the same in the fact we are both very real, genuine, warm, and sensual creatures...but everything else is different about us. The way we TCB, how we present ourselves, the props, etc. are different. No surprise we only share a part of our clientele. But all of it is available to me... the candles are there! The rose petals are there! I just need to use them. I don't. Maybe twice I tried the candles, and it just wasn't my cup of tea. It wasn't my style. Just like my wine sets up on the wine rack and she knows it is available for her, but she doesn't like wine...she doesn't use it because it is not her style.
The great thing... no, the absolute best thing about the hobby is the variety. Gents would simply not be here if they didn't want variety, so that should be a no-brainer! We all operate a bit differently...since we have no boss to answer to, no cookie cutter work agenda, no real rules to abide by, we can do what we want in the manner in which we are comfortable with. How I choose to operate, how my roommate operates, how you operate, can all be really differant....but you know what? It doesn't mean one of us is any better or less than the other. It just simply means we are different. You may not operate the same as a BP girl, but you really are not any better and neither am I.... we are just merely different. What scale do we have to judge each other on? There isn't one.... isn't that nice? I rather like that. And some people like vanilla ice cream.