Outcall/Hotel Etiquette

[opethman42]

Bit of a new hobbyist here with some rookie questions, hope yall can give me some tips.
I've never requested an outcall before. If I'm travelling somewhere and want to see a lady who does outcalls, does that mean they're likely ok with visiting my hotel room or is the expectation your own house/apartment?
I'm wondering what the etiquette should be. Where would you usually meet with them? I can imagine you wouldn't like to exchange a large donation in a super public setting. Do hotel staff have an issue if they catch guests from outside staying over in your room?
What are some tips to make the provider feel welcome and safe? And also ensure my own safety / stay out of trouble when visiting a new city?

Thanks in advance to anyone who can help a bro out!

[Mayamonroe23]

- If I'm travelling somewhere and want to see a lady who does outcalls, does that mean they're likely ok with visiting my hotel room or is the expectation your own house/apartment?

Most girls are okay with either. Some more affordable hotels can be "hot" and that can make either a client or provider nervous to go there, so abit of research is always good.

-Where would you usually meet with them?

If they are nonassuming I always prefer they come get me and we go up together

-I can imagine you wouldn't like to exchange a large donation in a super public setting

Never. Ever and I would leave so fast if they tried

-Do hotel staff have an issue if they catch guests from outside staying over in your room?

Most hotels do not. I have stayed ata hotel close to DFW airport before tho who watched the cameras before giving my deposit back and that was weird. It can be best to stick to specific chains that has known practices

-What are some tips to make the provider feel welcome and safe And also ensure my own safety / stay out of trouble when visiting a new city?

verify. verify. verify. Be discreet.

[mbrad789]

I've spent thousands of nights in hotels. The most important thing is don't "act weird". That calls attention to you and your "niece". Be relaxed. Be natural. "Own" that you belong there. Don't avoid eye contact. If the front desk says "hi", say "hi" back. i.e. be normal.

A pro-tip - share which direction to turn for the elevators. If you go the wrong direction, go up to the 2nd floor and go the right direction.

Avoid the knock - leave the door open so she can "fake a key card" and walk right in. Standing at the door after knocking gets uncomfortable FAST.

If you're in a downtown hotel, a key card will likely be required. The bar is a great place to meet. If a bunch of people are in town for a conference, meet outside and give her a spare keycard with the room number.

When you're in a crowded elevator, be discreet. Or don't :) It's hot AF to grab her ass in a crowded elevator or for her to give you a discreet grind. That's more of a 3rd date kind of thing but the clothes fly off before the door closes to the room.

I often sit in the lobby with a drink and watch. Sometimes, the escorts are easy to pick out. And sometimes I'm not sure. And I'm sure I miss some totally. Be natural and you won't have any problems.

[lovingcamela]

I’ve only had an issue once where I went to a very confusing hotel that had many conferences. I had to ask one of the staff and had to give her the floor number. I didn’t want to ask her, but I did and she only wanted to be helpful. Anything that helps with knowing what direction to go, what elevator, etc if you can’t meet in public as this person couldn’t due to too many colleagues.

It’s nice when it is very clear where the donation is so you don’t have to ask. I bring my lingerie in my big purse among other things and change in the bathroom. I think that’s the easiest place to see it. Otherwise it’s so awkward to ask.

Personally, I love doing outcall dates. I love going downtown to a nice hotel and I don’t have to do laundry. LOLOLOL….However, if it’s for massage my setup is always better. I don’t even offer fbsm outcalls because I can’t bring my table. It’s better to uber to someone for that.

I hope that’s helpful!

[SexySammy]

I always have gentleman give me general directions to the elevator if I haven't been to the certain hotel often enough to remember. I always play around on my phone and simply act like I know where I'm going so I don't stick out. I always dress accordingly to the hotel. If it's not a 5star downtown I will likely be in some jeans/yoga pants and a tank top. I don't visit any hotel under 3stars and even some of those will depend on the Google reviews. A lot of downtown hotels will require you come down to get her. Either tell eachother what yall are wearing and if you have work buddies staying there simply tell her to be wary of others around because you would like discretion and if she's a good provider, she will do so without copping an attitude.

I've stayed and visited my fair share of hotels and can tell you 80% of them know what's going in. They know what businessman want when traveling. The minute they start causing issues, they lose that business. So unless you're robbing people or doing fucked up shit and making their lives more difficult do they really give a fuck.

Always always do your research! Look up multiple reviews for a general idea on the lady and make sure she's the one for you and not a lot of reviews that mention upcharging coming later, or her being a hit it and leave type of chick. That goes for any and all appointments honestly. Ask the locker room if you have access about someone you may be unsure about.

When she's in your room, leave the donation on the counter somewhere visible so she can see it, it doesn't exchange hands EVER. I don't touch money handed to me.

[RustyBalls]

When scheduling an out-call with a provider to a DT ATX hotel, keep the following in mind. She will need to obtain transportation to/from the hotel as well as hotel valet parking may be needed. Some providers will Uber to/from which might be better--all her choice. My expectations is that would normally be a $100 upcharge to her normal incall rate out in the burbs.

Most but not all hotels require a room key to go up the elevator to rooms--meet in bar area for drinks at previously described. If key-pass not required for elevator, then ask for her to text/call from lobby so you can have the door agar to facilitate easy room entry. Instructions on direction to elevators are very welcome for every encounter.

I have only hosted out-call sessions with ladies that I have previously met, don't want any unpleasant hotel surprises.

No discussions or exchange of donations in public location--just asking for trouble, especially if you have not previously met with this provider at her incall.

I live far out in the North ATX suburbs so I will often get a hotel in DT ATX for multi-day business meetings. Those are excellent opportunities to invite a favorite provider for some one-on-one special time in a DT hotel location. Be sure to cover her travel time/expenses/parking, as well as her normal rate. Drinks at the hotel bar, dinner at the restaurant, room services snacks/dinner/wine are all extras she might enjoy before/after the session, but not while on the clock. Most of your favorites will like the extra activities/treats. Always make sure to confirm what time is on the clock so there are no miscommunications on donation. If you are lucky, a long-term favorite might agree stay over the night for a second, early session which is always nice.

[opethman42]

Thank you all for the good info