Quote Originally Posted by CashmereJ View Post
I think it's the other way around
It's most definitely the other way around. I would recommend starting with toys on your own. There are certain positions and angles that may work better or feel better to you. I always had the guys start Greek in Mish and then after you've been warmed up its a lot more enjoyable to switch to doggy. I never got experienced enough to be on top in Greek because it makes it difficult to relax. Lots of Lube is also key, and good liquid Lube not the gel kind that gets sticky. Make sure you are open in ads about Greek being at your discretion so nobody gets their feelings hurt if they are too big and you aren't comfortable doing it with them.