I fully understand why providers would come to despise reviews but for me personally, it was a way of knowing what a provider was or wasn't comfortable doing. The ladies who have seen me and know me all know I like certain activities (as is true for everyone I'm sure) and reviews were a way to determine whether or not a provider was comfortable with those activities before even inquiring into her time. Most providers don't advertise their "menu" outright (for good reason) and I've always felt it comes off kind of tacky (and poor etiquette) to come right out and ask, even in a PM. Maybe I'm wrong about that but reviews were a way to determine what she is comfortable with and if we could potentially have a good time together.