Dirty talk or not

[Sue Nami]

Today I had a client say, "no dirty talking, I just like the actions". I appreciate that, so I can do it how he likes it and make it good for him. But damn, it was hard. I usually have a running stream of dirty talk and scenarios and stories to fan the flames of hot sexy fun. Dirty chatter comes naturally to me. I do appreciate when someone says how they like it, and asks for quiet. How do you like your session, with a steady patter of filthy dirty talk and verbal encouragement or silence? Do you say so or just endure the dirty talk? I sure hope guys can ask for what they like and speak up during a session and voice a preference. My fall back state is usually dirty talk, and I'd hate to be bugging a guy who prefers silence.

[OswaldBates]

I like dirty talk. Talking in general makes everything better. Dead silence with someone that isn't enthusiastic is the worst and makes me self-conscious.

[RikkiB]

All about the mood, if GFE/making love not so much
actuall intense Vegas style sex HELL YES

but not like some of the horrible pornstars do it where it sounds so insincere
gotta feel it and want it i think

[Shmafty]

Giving directions and instructions is always welcomed, as is some fair amount of dirty rhetoric. However, I prefer to draw the line at dirty follow-up questions; it's not something I'm usually prepared for so it catches me a little off guard. For example:

Her: "Are you gonna do some dirty things to me?"
Me: "Yeah, we're gonna get real freaky"
Her: "Really? What kinda things are you gonna do to me?"
Me: *record scratch*

Personally, I will give extra points for memes and pop culture references worked into dirty talk

[OswaldBates]

Giving directions and instructions is always welcomed, as is some fair amount of dirty rhetoric. However, I prefer to draw the line at dirty follow-up questions; it's not something I'm usually prepared for so it catches me a little off guard. For example:

Her: "Are you gonna do some dirty things to me?"
Me: "Yeah, we're gonna get real freaky"
Her: "Really? What kinda things are you gonna do to me?"
Me: *record scratch*

Personally, I will give extra points for memes and pop culture references worked into dirty talk

Answer with "arabian goggles" next time. The record will probably still scratch as soon as she hears the response, but at least you'll have an answer.

[SubClubKid81]

Always dirty talk.

[austinguy]

I repeat with providers who are good at dirty talk

[txtraveler07]

I want some form of vocalization from the woman. Moaning, grunting, giving directions, dirty talk. I love dirty talk. I especially love verbal humiliation, being able to call her a slut or ***** and seeing her get turned on and reciprocate. Bonus points if she's shy/cute/sweet/bubbly/innocent and gets really into those things. Like I said, I love dirty talk, but I'm usually the one doing most of it. The only woman I've been with who got really into dirty talk was a provider who was a sub and was really into being dominated and degraded. She'd say things like, "I'm your worthless little cum rag. Just cum on me and throw me in the corner." Which is not so much what I'm into.

At the end of the day, I want indications that she's enjoying everything as much as I am. That's what really turns me on.

[drporndawg2]

I like dirty talk. I like moaning. The louder the better. That's a turn on for me.

[mathguy]

More than the dirty talk itself, which is really great too, but it's most important that she vocalizes on some sort of level to show arousal, excitement, engagement, pleasure, etc...

At least on *some* level whether small whimpers, touches, louder moaning, yelling, dirty talking, or any combination of those.

Dirty talk if done right is fucking awesome. But you do have to be careful not to over do it. Adult movies and homemade porn get it wrong a lot. Don't take this to mean there is a limit on "nasty". There isn't. You can be filthy AF if you want. What you cannot do is make super uncharacteristic (for *you*) phrases and/or words, grunts, yelps, etc that are also very unnatural and have a disingenuous tone.

Personally I love dirty talk. But, again, it isn't really the talking itself so much. At least I don't think it is. The talking, moaning, or even screaming, if genuine, and obviously other body fluid changes, all indictate pleasure. If you're a people pleaser type to the point that your partner, even one being paid, being able to get off is every bit as important as you getting off, then this is a huge thing and why vocality and responsiveness are so, so, so critically important (at least in *some* sort of way.

You'd be surprised too. Even a girl sucking a dick, if she is really into it, maybe she likes the guy, likes his dick, can't wait to fuck, maybe it's either one or all, etc.... she is getting wet (for example), nothing is held back, and everything about her attitude, her body language, her enthusiasm, moans, touches to your body, fluid changes on her own body, the way she "eye fucks you" when she looks up (and really means it too), all spell out her predilections: "she's horny, you made her horny, and she wants to be fucked now so badly by you".

Awesome good stuff peeps! When we can get it (guys & girls both)

[DallasRain]

OMG....say something guys...lol

I chatter and luv dirty talk...but I donty like it too qiuet...so at least make some sounds..lol