People here as well as the other cities have their regulars, and sometimes irregulars. But to say San Antonio is dead is not the truth.
As guys and gals on here travel around Texas and even other states, there's always action somewhere. Maybe just try expanding your search OP. Try different flavors and not just one type. It does help to taste the rainbow. Perhaps ask some of us who've been around awhile (myself a little over 30 years of hobbying globally) 900 to 1000 women and still going strong. Perhaps it's you. Look in the mirror one time and try it from a different angel. You might surprise yourself. JUST A SUGGESTION.