It is convenient to have a cover. Cover as in cover story. Duh, some people's mind.

I can even send a dick picture. Can I borrow one of yours, you being bigger than me and all that.

But when it comes to a face pic, I ain't showing unless the lady is showing and she confirms it is her. Like her ad has several pics and she sends one that is similar to her ad pics but with 2 fingers holding a yellow sticky note with her telephone number on it and asks for a similar one back. THAT is different. I will send a photo of a yellow sticky note held by two fingers with her telephone number written on it.

Better yet, lets meet in the meat section of Wally World, you carry a yellow sticky note and I will bring mine.