#1 Adonisman is right, “updated current pics. Not 10 years older and 40 pounds heavier.”
#2 whatever makes you feel comfortable
#3 no stocking, heels are not a turn on either
#4 not big on lingerie
#5 Sundress (semi see though even better) or tee shirt and shorts/yoga pants
#6 No bra (I do understand that some ladies need the support, no problem with that)