For me anyway, when i ask for reference i get " i saw so-and-so awhile back" or " heres the phone numbers i have for them. Not sure if they are active anymoe" and more like this. What is happening?! How can we get guys to give us more specifics. They used to. I know we all do it differently. But can i get the basics! Where do you guys list your verification process? Please guys. We are trying to be safe