I have discovered Twitter is a good way to share without the drama. I also keep a photo blog on my site for the gents who have already met me, which I do not allow the drama queens or the creeps into it. Thats where my playground is... where I over share, allow you into my personal life, where I showcase my personality. I like creating a real friendship with my boyfriends. Just because I am not a posting ho on the ho boards, does not mean I am an "in and out" type of a lady. Any of the gents who have seen me can attest to this. I have just learned to vet the ones I allow in.