Hopefully I can put myself out here like this without judgment...

For about the last 20 years, I've not been able to get a nut with just BJ [and barely with HJ]. I don't know why, but it seems like some kind of mental block or something. Even with intercourse, it takes me a LONG time to cum [sometimes I have to take a break and then get back to it].

I actually started looking to this site and others in hopes that I might be able to get over this roadblock and actually be able to cum with head. Unfortunately, that's not been the case yet. I've seen several ladies so far and although they've all given it a good shot, there's been no luck yet. I've had some BJ for 45 minutes with no result, except they get tired and quit. Always had to resort to finishing with FS.

I know y'all aren't a bunch of doctors or therapists, but curious if anyone has experienced anything similar and if so, how'd you get past it?

I'm still waiting for the lady that doesn't give up and wants to help me experience what that's like..