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  1. #16
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    It is just another one of those Hobbyist/Provider long term relationships/encounters that become..."FUBAR"
    It then becomes time to "pack it in"
    Last edited by bb1961; 11-30-2018 at 12:44 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kammye View Post
    Cut her loose hun. My regulars are always going to get 100% from me because well....i would like them to continue seeing me. Plus thats just great customer service. :)
    +1

    I have clients I’ve seen for 10 years now. Matter of fact I saw one last night that moved to N. Carolina a few months ago. He flew in last to see me and out this morning. He was so excited to see me that he literally picked me up when hugging me. 😊 Asked him how his hobby life in N. Carolina was going and he’s like he hasn’t even bothered and from what he can tell by the looks of it, it’s not worth it; he’d rather fly in to see me.

    Know why hes been a steady client for 10 years because I find different ways to blow his mind EVERYTIME! I don’t do or believe in subpar. If you’re not getting consistent...make you want to go back twice in one week or the next. Then you’ve got a problem and it’s time to let her go that’s the kind of mess you settle for when you’re married *(Not to say that’s acceptable either....if you were dicking me down frequently before we got married, I expect that to continue... that was part of the packaged deal I signed up for and WILL continue to happen, even if that means I have to take it from you. 😁By the way that taking only works from a woman)*

    It’s time to upgrade yourself!
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    I'd say don't see her for 3 or 4 months. A little absence from time to time makes everything better.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TeddyO View Post
    mailing it in
    Slang for doing the least amount of work possible or slacking off
    That might be her way of getting rid of you.

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    Some regulars get annoying or not worth the time anymore.

    Example.
    The guy is grandfathered in to my rate from 4 years ago, which was fine, until this last year. .

    He takes longer and longer to cum.
    Asks for "extras".
    Cant get hard
    Wants me to do positions that hurt my vagina.
    Uses 5 towels for a hhr session.
    Starts to cancel last minute.

    Sometimes it is easier to be left than to leave.

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    I just dont go back for a while. Then go back when I feel like I miss that pussy. Till then just fuck new pussy. Very simple.

    If it ain't better by then, just forget about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessica Belmont View Post
    Some regulars get annoying or not worth the time anymore.

    Example.
    The guy is grandfathered in to my rate from 4 years ago, which was fine, until this last year. .

    He takes longer and longer to cum.
    Asks for "extras".
    Cant get hard
    Wants me to do positions that hurt my vagina.
    Uses 5 towels for a hhr session.
    Starts to cancel last minute.

    Sometimes it is easier to be left than to leave.
    Those issues above manifest from the excessive use of a single individual provider. The hobby is about anonymous recreational sex, not shallow business friendships (real friendship costs nothing).

    Fuck them twice and then MOVE ON (unless you feel she's a bargain).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessica Belmont View Post
    Some regulars get annoying or not worth the time anymore.

    Example.
    The guy is grandfathered in to my rate from 4 years ago, which was fine, until this last year. .

    He takes longer and longer to cum.
    Asks for "extras".
    Cant get hard
    Wants me to do positions that hurt my vagina.
    Uses 5 towels for a hhr session.
    Starts to cancel last minute.

    Sometimes it is easier to be left than to leave.
    AND sometimes its this !!!^^^^^Or just the image of some of you mf's is too much for the provider to handle anymore....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessica Belmont View Post
    Some regulars get annoying or not worth the time anymore.

    Example.
    The guy is grandfathered in to my rate from 4 years ago, which was fine, until this last year. .

    He takes longer and longer to cum.
    Asks for "extras".
    Cant get hard
    Wants me to do positions that hurt my vagina.
    Uses 5 towels for a hhr session.
    Starts to cancel last minute.

    Sometimes it is easier to be left than to leave.


    Well:
    1. Not grandfathered.
    2.Maybe.
    3.Nope. No extras asked for.
    4.I still get hard from a strong breeze.
    5.Actually she did mention something positions in of the last few appointments.
    6.I only do 60 or 90mins appointments.
    7.If I was a last minute canceller I'd expect to be released.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kammye View Post
    Cut her loose hun. My regulars are always going to get 100% from me because well....i would like them to continue seeing me. Plus thats just great customer service. :)
    Thanks for all the advice from everyone. Going with this.

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    Now I am admitted not as smooth as many of you other Mongers, I have had occasion to breach this subject with one of my favorites. I do my best to be a gentleman, now I am an Engineer and like many in my profession am trained to see things black or white and little else.

    Victoria (Barcelona) is a very seductive and Hot girl but her performance fell off markedly and recently in one of our 4 hour trysts. I took her to dinner at an small romantic restaurant up the coast and we had a nice dinner, retired to a very nice hotel room and started our tryst after we both worshiped/teased/kissed/bit and licked each other's bodies for 20 minutes, I asked her if she was not happy or board with me or our trysts. She said sorry lover I have been feeling bad and have been used badly by my other clients and I didn't realize it was affecting you and me, this has resulted in her being to erotic and super seductive girl that I regularly lust after.

    I believe everybody deserves a chance and this was the softest way I could think of to approach her about it.

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    Maybe she never really enjoyed seeing you. But she just needed the money. Now she's not desperate for the money. And she doesn't want to see you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Oralist View Post
    I was a regular of a now retired well known HOT Companion. By Regular, I had seen her weekly for 20+ times. Then she showed up 45 minutes late to our favorite place. The next time, she told me to get the room, she was running a little late. I did and soon she called and cancelled entirely. I sent her a text the next day on "How To Lose A Regular". She was actually pissed, even though it was completely her fault. Never saw her again.

    If she "Mails It In", let her know and move on. Count the number of Companions active on this site, the other site and P411. Over 1000 to choose from, just in Houston.
    Good advice. Some providers do get comfortable with the relationship. I have been seeing the same hobbyist for over two years. I always shower, and get prettied up for him. Doesn't matter how long I have been seeing him, I don't let myself go.
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    Another one to add is when you've been seeing them regularly for a few years and they change their phone numbers. They didn't save yours and never bothered with even trying to contact you.

    Time to move on.......
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    Quote Originally Posted by TeddyO View Post
    Thanks for all the advice from everyone. Going with this.
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