Originally Posted by
MarkWatney
Kate, I liked your response. It's probably more than I could ever sign up for, because as much as I'd love to have that kind of a GFE, I just don't think that it would be sustainable for me.
For example giving a book. That would involve a lot of personal knowledge along the same lines as your own interests, and I'm just not that well-rounded of a book person. And it would be maybe a little too intimate for this kind of connection. For me anyway. Maybe that's an ideal for you that doesn't match everyone that you'd be cool with, but the ideal is a lot to live up to.
For me, it's more about capturing the passion from my fantasies and bringing them to life. It's so much more than connecting part A to part B, which really can only go so far when there is the necessary part C (cover) in between.
Passionate kisses are the perfect way to start, and after that, no matter what I had in mind going in to the session, it always goes a different way. And it's incredibly intimate to be with someone in the moment, giving and receiving pleasure in devious ways to get around the necessary restrictions and still have some fun anyway.
But in real life, it could go on for hours. In the hobby, there are limits because we have to reimburse you for your time. Maybe on special occasions we can handle a 2 or 3 hour session, but 1 hour is more typical. There's only so much you can do in 1 hour, so we get kind of rushed, like a jazz musician in the 40's trying to squeeze a 6-minute composition onto a 3-minute pressing.
And as much as we'd like to be there for you before we do our thing, there's also the hard fact that we need time to build up before we can release. It would be kind of an insult to your attractiveness if we didn't release, so there's some pressure there.
And that's all fine, we do what we can when we can. If everything isn't perfect, it's still a ton of fun.
That's what a GFE is to me. We may not bring you your favorite things, because we don't always have the time to find out what they are.
But we bring ourselves, our passions, and our donations. On special occasions we may take you shopping or for dinner or something, but more often that's all we bring to the table.
With any luck, you get as much pleasure as we do, although maybe in different ways. I hope that's enough.