What in the actual fuck

[Blackgold]

So even though I am verified and have seen providers but I dont post reviews or anything like that I still have to jump through hoops to get seen. I am an oilfield worker, i put in 120 hours a week on average at work. Sorry I don't use this like Facebook. If there are any providers who would like to work, and see that I am verified and aren't going to ask for my entire fucking history again hit me up. I got money to blow! Also I travel a fuck ton to west Texas. If any gentleman find themselves in that area which OH2 has no providers out there try this page, works here is San Antonio too.
http://san-antonio.skipthegames.com/...-escorts/?area[]=San-Antonio.SAT&client[]=&layout=gallery&search_category=female-escorts&p=2&td=07%3A00%3A00

[Billy_Jones]

Sometimes I feel the same way you feel but it's a process that must be followed for safety reasons. I say the best thing to do is send the ladies you see from this site a friend request on here, so you can use them as a quick reference. Create a copy/paste reference message that's ready to go upon request. Try to get verified by ladies you know you want to see in the future to speed the process up when it's time to go down.

[Blackgold]

I am verified by the site though. Why say I have to be verified even though I am? Like what about my safety? If I started screening them the way the screen me they would loose their shit. Safety is a two way street and we are all shady as fuck....

[DocHoliday]

Safety is a two way street and we are all shady as fuck....

Speak for yourself, Ol Doc and the overwhelming majority of members here are on the up and up and cool as fuck. The rest of us can’t help that you’re shit outa luck.

[ThisGuy22]

Lol TOO FUNNY DOC...!
But really. It’s all about safety. Plenty of mongers get verified an then BAMMMM! Some provider gets screwed. So Just because you’ve been screened and verified once, as a good business practice it’s best for ladies to check and re-verify that you’re still legitimate to be seen with no issues.

Don’t like it, you don’t have to play here. Good luck to u

[Italia]

Lol TOO FUNNY DOC...!
But really. It’s all about safety. Plenty of mongers get verified an then BAMMMM! Some provider gets screwed. So Just because you’ve been screened and verified once, as a good business practice it’s best for ladies to check and re-verify that you’re still legitimate to be seen with no issues.

Don’t like it, you don’t have to play here. Good luck to u

Great response babe (ThisGuy22) and to the OP even though your status states verified, you could have raped or beaten a girl last night and I wouldn’t find out until after I allowed you to come to my place the very next day all because I trusted that you’re verified on a forum and didn’t feel the need to screen because you said for me to trust you.

Every smart lady will do screening even if you just got done seeing a lady that morning, it’s the smart thing to do because even though you didn’t want to hurt the last, the next lady has a different approach and pisses you off and there goes violence, there goes you knowing my incall. For you it’s easy to blow your load the way you wanna blow your money but for us ( me ) when you refuse to give the proper screening details you make me wary of you and concerned for my safety.


Play safe black gold, Italia

[AlexandraSand]

Italia is absolutely right.
Verification is not only to avoid LE, but to let us(girls) know that you are safe, clean, polite, fun, don't short donation, don't use drugs, healthy, not violent, not obnoxious, that you brush your teeth, wears clean undergarments and overalls. I can go on, and on, and on.
The tone of voice in your message is also important. The way you start your conversation and what you say in the original request is important, to us. Grammar is also important.
And yes, your age does matter also. Some of us don't date younger men, even if they have some cash to burn.

Don't treat Ladies, like a vending machines. We owe you nothing. We have more to lose, than you think.
Give respect. And you will get a date. After verification and confirmation.
Being "verified member" here only means, that you have played twice. Without the details on 'how," that I have described above.

And stop whining and dissing community because you are horny. You have 2 healthy hands, that you have to wash - which is verification on itself - before playing. We have security rules too.
You will be assimilated. Resistance is futile.

[Guest 051123-1]

You will be assimilated. Resistance is futile.

Shit. Now you’ve done it. Now I have go find you a “Seven of Nine” costume.

[Italia]

Italia is absolutely right.
Verification is not only to avoid LE, but to let us(girls) know that you are safe, clean, polite, fun, don't short donation, don't use drugs, healthy, not violent, not obnoxious, that you brush your teeth, wears clean undergarments and overalls. I can go on, and on, and on.
The tone of voice in your message is also important. The way you start your conversation and what you say in the original request is important, to us. Grammar is also important.
And yes, your age does matter also. Some of us don't date younger men, even if they have some cash to burn.

Don't treat Ladies, like a vending machines. We owe you nothing. We have more to lose, than you think.
Give respect. And you will get a date. After verification and confirmation.
Being "verified member" here only means, that you have played twice. Without the details on 'how," that I have described above.

And stop whining and dissing community because you are horny. You have 2 healthy hands, that you have to wash - which is verification on itself - before playing. We have security rules too.
You will be assimilated. Resistance is futile.

Ha ha " You will be assimilated " love it

To the O.P ;
Verified hobbyist" is a member title, and doesn't mean the member is screened and vouched

[Blackgold]

I am still resisting, the only thing I assimilate for is money... and since I am the one handing it over that's not happening. Surprisingly I got a few messages from providers who understand more or less, so as far as that goes....

[LovelyEvelyn]

Well, everyone has their own comfort levels as far as screening goes. Just understand that there will be a few of us that you will not get to see. *shrugs*

[Fancyinheels]

I am verified by the site though. Why say I have to be verified even though I am?

While the same term is often used, being verified for the H2 website is NOT the same as being verified through screening/known references for companion visits. Two separate animals. See my Houston thread, please, for further explanation: https://home.ourhome2.net/vb/showthread.php?68154-H2-is-not-never-has-been-P411!-Screening-references-are-still-necessary!

HOW ladies choose to screen is up to them, just as it is up to gents to decide whether or not they wish to comply. -- FIH/staff

[ck1942]

Yes, "verified hobbyist" is a site title that means the title holder has been confirmed for a recent session by that verified companion. Making that hobbyist an "active participant in the hobby."

Perhaps "confirmed" hobbyist would be more accurate?

Pretty much "ditto" applies to "verified companion" as well.

[zorthos]

Have you attempted a simple post asking if any one is interested? I know I don't frequent a lot of providers, (Almost never to be honest I am more of an AMP person) but, simply post asking if any ladies are interested will normally generate a response, especially if you have been around for a while, and are some what active on multiple sites. I can definable understand the ladies being gun shy about only looking at site verification. The biggest thing that has helped me is posting in the forums and getting people to know you a bit. I know it's a pain, but safety first right?

[winndixie]

Getting to know the RIGHT providers can do the most for you. Treat them right and they will get you in the door and well beyond.. Just like anywhere else.. Its who you know..