lol this right here. I live an hour outside the city, and to me the travel time I need to get to almost ANY provider is worth it in terms of discretion, mental prep for me, etc… the likelihood of someone I know recognizing me or my vehicle pulling into a no-tell or someone’s apartment complex is of course never zero, but highly unlikely. I use it to my advantage. Of course there are guys that are into lunch break sessions and things of that matter and so I understand that but that’s not my situation at all. I only hobby on days when I don’t have anything else going on at all so travel time and traffic is something I just plan for.