How to Contact an Escort Template :)

[AlexandraSand]

This is for those who need a little help in this area.

Gentlemen, did you know that ladies really appreciate it when you contact them in a direct manner, which includes a few specific details? Well, we really do! Below are a couple of templates that you can cut, paste, and then fill in when contacting a lady. Using either one will differentiate you as more of a gentleman who is serious with his enquiry.

And Ladies, what would you prefer in an initial correspondence from a gentleman? Post your own copy and paste template here for them to use!

For a Newbie:
Hi (the lady’s name),
I saw your ad on (website) and I would like to meet up with you on (date & time). I am (your age and physical description) who works in the (your profession) sector. I am new to this. Let me know what is needed to move forward in getting together.

For the Experienced Gentleman in this realm:
Hi (the lady’s name),
I saw your ad on (website) and I would like to meet up with you on (date & time). I am (your age and physical description) who works in the (your profession) sector.
Below are my references and let me know if need additional information.
OH2 Handle:
P411 Handle:
Provider Name
Her Location (city)
What site she advertises on
Last time you saw her
The email and phone number she would associate you with.

[Ava In Austin]

Take note new gents!

[guyeefawkes]

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[Micio Consigliere]

Take note new gents!

In the spirit of this thread being helpful I would like to offer a different perspective. First off EVERY guy and gal are different in many ways. With that being said I would like to draw your attention to some issues.

What possible reason could a lady want or need to know where you found her? My knee jerk reaction is ladies post on several different venues. That tells her the information you have. In doing my research I find ladies posting different rates, ages, weights, menu items and even ethnicities. Do you ladies wonder why guys ask questions? I joined P411 to find many providers both here and on P411. Yet the rates are higher on P411 almost across the board.

Next, asking a provider you don’t know or who you have never met, WHEN you want to meet is a joke. While I understand both guys and gals have schedules I feel it’s the ladies availability that matters. Let me give you an example. I have reached out most recently to a provider here. She secured a new handle claiming management screwed up her old account. Perfect! So she is now independent, wonderful. I never got a response from her old handle trying three times after she or they posted an ad but the fourth time I secure rates and incall location and am asked when? I responded, I’m ready to go. Never heard back. So I reach out once again, to the new handle, only to find that her rates went up, and responses had from 1 to 6 hour delays just like before. Zero screening. She / they confirmed same number, same incall with higher rates and asked when I wanted to schedule. This was at 10:00 am. I responded immediately, I’m showered and ready to go. I get a text at 10:58 pm asking if I could be there at 11:30 pm? Needless to say my schedule which is 8 am to 6 pm is irrelevant. I have noticed several providers that post the hours they work. Very helpful. So yesterday I reached out to a lady that posted an ad with her hours. Made contact. Got an fast response saying she was unavailable for two more days. So why post the ad with hours if your not working? Yeah I know life happens. But guess what we all have lives not just ladies.

Screening? Really? I have two and now three references. I gave out via copy and paste their profile link, name and phone number. I have sent this to 3 providers in the last month. Not one checked with my references. One after two days stated she no longer uses references and wants real world information like DL as she has been screwed over.

So while I understand there are two sides to each story, I’m not interested in a text pal or interested in spending days trying to secure an appointment. From a guys perspective, here is my screening information. I’m available 8-6. Where and when? Seems pretty simple but not fora lot of ladies it would seem. Oh and no I’m NOT with law enforcement.

So what do I attribute most of the failure? Simple, selfishness and a I do n’t give a shit attitude. Play my game or I move on to the next guy in line. I actually had a lady tell me she makes guys jump through hoops for at least 2-3 days to see if they can follow instructions and are serious about meeting. Nice, very nice!

[ouriago]

There is nothing perfect. But, it's a good start as a template to get an idea what details most providers are looking for.

Sure you can list worst case scenarios/best case scenarios and experience may vary. Both parties have to do what they feel comfortable with and figure out what works in the end. The original post is still really helpful and wish I had seen it sooner. And, I'm guessing it was revived in response to a few posts from new hobbyists talking about issues their having. Maybe it should be sticky.

[Micio Consigliere]

For the Newbies who will be flocking here soon now that List Crawler is down and Adult Search is cleaning up their site to remove fake ads.

I’m certain your helpfulness is appreciated. I read the entire thread. The gals are all cheering you on. That’s expected. Try reading the guys posts. Is there a chance that perhaps some gals do not grasp the frustration in dealing with certain providers? See, following your template while helpful and appreciated by you and others that have posted here, and wanting this to be a sticky (sticky is good?) is most certainly a good thing, I am sure you can understand guys getting frustrated and falling short as all gals are NoT like you.

This just in.

Got a return text from a provider yesterday after waiting 5 hours. I forwarded description, age, ethnicity, 3 references. And guess what? All systems Go! Scheduled for 10:00 am at the Domain. Arrived 10 minutes early. Sent the following text:

I’m here and ready when you are. No rush. Just let me know when you are ready.

Response:

Could you send me a pic of your DL. You can block out the number and your name.

My response:

I do not offer real world information. Why did you not ask for that yesterday? Why did you wait till I was here?

Response:

You are obviously law enforcement

Interesting way of canceling or letting a guy know you double booked or started your period. Yeah there is a whole other side of the story for the guys. I try and always keep a positive attitude. No way will I blame other gals for what this gal did. But after a while, I must admit it wears on you.

[mehsterj]

Got a return text from a provider yesterday after waiting 5 hours. I forwarded description, age, ethnicity, 3 references. And guess what? All systems Go! Scheduled for 10:00 am at the Domain. Arrived 10 minutes early. Sent the following text:

I’m here and ready when you are. No rush. Just let me know when you are ready.

Response:

Could you send me a pic of your DL. You can block out the number and your name.

My response:

I do not offer real world information. Why did you not ask for that yesterday? Why did you wait till I was here?

Response:

You are obviously law enforcement

Interesting way of canceling or letting a guy know you double booked or started your period. Yeah there is a whole other side of the story for the guys. I try and always keep a positive attitude. No way will I blame other gals for what this gal did. But after a while, I must admit it wears on you.

"You are obviously law enforcement." - Kudos to her for finding a way to deflect blame onto you lol. What an asshole. Sorry you had to deal with that.

I've had a similar experience with a provider who said she was OK with references. I gave her 3 references to screen, and then hours later, out of nowhere, she wants my LinkedIn. It makes you wonder, "wtf kind of screening process is this?" Terrible TCB and ain't nobody got time for that.... Next.

[Micio Consigliere]

"You are obviously law enforcement." - Kudos to her for finding a way to deflect blame onto you lol. What an asshole. Sorry you had to deal with that.

I've had a similar experience with a provider who said she was OK with references. I gave her 3 references to screen, and then hours later, out of nowhere, she wants my LinkedIn. It makes you wonder, "wtf kind of screening process is this?" Terrible TCB and ain't nobody got time for that.... Next.

Exactly! I’ll start providing real world information when gals do.

Let’s face it, the only reason WE are here is MONEY! The guys have it and the gals want it. And I certainly understand the gals not wanting their time wasted. But that knife cuts both ways.

On a different note, how hard is it to text a client and simply say, “I’m booked! Watch for my next ad” instead of simply blowing off everyone who was not lucky enough to secure a spot. Sounds like a great idea and should be reasonable to any gal who doesn’t want her time wasted I would think. I have reached out to gals and they respond days and believe it or not weeks later.

Yeah I get it! Gals have their rules as it should be. And guys should follow the rules to the best of their ability. But I for one am not interested in screening simply to get a gals rates. It’s got to the point if I ask could I get your rates PLEASE? And she fires back with, where did you find me? And how much time do you want to spend? I reach over to the delete button.

I’m finding while some gals would be tickled pink if someone contacted them, while others are willing to invest zero time. So what are we left with? Gals pissed because they don’t want their time wasted and guys that are pissed because their time is being wasted. Deep breath. Is this NOT a business? In what business should customers be treated poorly? Noting there are some assholes out there and none of us want to deal with them. As previously mentioned, just because High Volume Hailey treated me badly, does not mean I should take it out on Big Breasted Bonnie. In the same token if Super Dick wants to know if he can stick a fly seater up your poop shoot while wearing a diaper and sucking on a pacifier at half your rate, mean that all guys want that.

In the words of Rodney King:

The City is willing to give me how much?

RESPECT!!! You want it? Make sure you are serving it yourself!

[Austin Ellen]

Okie dokie - it's getting off topic here gents. So get back on topic. Chop,chop.

[Micio Consigliere]

Now, I've heard there was a secret chord
That David played, and it pleased the Lord
But you don't really care for music, do you?
It goes like this, the fourth, the fifth
The minor fall, the major lift
The baffled king composing Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Your faith was strong but you needed proof
You saw her bathing on the roof
Her beauty and the moonlight overthrew ya
She tied you to a kitchen chair
She broke your throne, and she cut your hair
And from your lips she drew the Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
You say I took the name in vain
I don't even know the name
But if I did, well really, what's it to you?
There's a blaze of light in every word
It doesn't matter which you heard
The holy or the broken Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
I did my best, it wasn't much
I couldn't feel, so I tried to touch
I've told the truth, I didn't come to fool you
And even though it all went wrong
I'll stand before the Lord of Song
With nothing on my tongue but Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah
Hallelujah

[Mokoa]

There is plenty of information in this thread to educate oneself in successfully meeting companions. Glean from it what you will.

Micio Consigliere...

Your persistent thread hijacking after you were told to stop has been noticed and "rewarded." Congratulations.

We are done here.