Donation theft

[MissAriXo]

Reading this thread makes me so sad! This hasn't happened to me in a LONG time. I learned early on to quickly count the donation. I always have the gentleman leave it in plain sight upon arrival and then when he goes to the bathroom to use mouthwash / shower etc I count it. I am sorry but no HONEST gentleman is going to mind you checking that you are compensated correctly. I am sure he would be pretty upset if his check was short on payday. If someone is the type to get upset that you are verifying your compensation, he is not the kind of client you want. Best of luck going forward, Mama!

[Wanderer23]

I've also had girls take my money and do a runner. I now have very little trust for "women of negotiable virtue". More often than not they are liars and thieves. The folks here seem to be more honest, but I have been burned too many times.

[Transylvania Count]

The real character of a person comes out when they think there are no consequences for their behavior.

Fake money, less than the agreed upon amount, overstaying your welcome, shorting an admirer on time, stealing back the donation, asking for deposits, advertising one thing and providing another, 'no reviews' policy, bad/old photos... All this shady behavior does not go unnoticed. We all have our lists of people we will never visit (again).

What is most disappointing is that when an admirer mentions treating a provider respectfully, he gets accused of being a simp by those who are here for games/power instead of fun. Respect is a two-way street, and should be the starting baseline, not the exception.

[SexySammy]

I've also had girls take my money and do a runner. I now have very little trust for "women of negotiable virtue". More often than not they are liars and thieves. The folks here seem to be more honest, but I have been burned too many times.

This is why research is key. This site is better because men and women can and will be reported and it makes it more difficult for them to book folks vs the "backpage" style sites where there's no way to warn others and there's not much you can do without admitting to a felony.
But unfortunately women have/can also be burned and I think a common middle ground for all parties is for the donation to be in an open area for both but we still need to verify it's the correct amount and make sure it isnt snatched on their way out the door. If you expect to pay after I can promise you it won't go well on here as that's just not how things work here. Unfortunately we can't just have you arrested or sue if you don't pay for services provided like legal businesses can, so it's going to be required by everyone.

[elyria]

I’m very sorry to hear this happened to you, Alexandra! Thanks for letting us know! Keep your head up from it; things like this can definitely bring a person down.