Use it or lose it?!

[knottyman]

Nikki

It happened to me two for 18 months, I could have been a nun!
Instead of having my face on cock ... I had my face on books and my
Insatiable lust for sex became a bookholism! Lol
Then i spoke to an astrologist ..my Saturn was in the house of
Introspection fucking up my Venus .... go figure!

Now that my planets are aligned .. I am back to being the
Same slut .. ha ha

guessing Uranus was nowhere to be fouind

[Guest 082419-1]

Ha ha Ur-anus

No I don’t speak Greek ha ha

[knottyman]

Ha ha Ur-anus

No I don’t speak Greek ha ha

Greek in never required.
Womanly curves....definitely are
And you seem to have them in spades!!

[ck1942]

There are, imo, several types of

horny and horny! and HORNY!

One is the obvious, usually based on visual stimuli...photos, possibly following a genuine great tushy down the aisle at a grocery; sometimes aural stimuli, music, for example, or the swish swish of those moving thighs gently rubbing and swaying. Could be olfactory, a certain linger smell of perfume or sweat? "Pheromoans."

Second -- horny! -- usually subconscious, often associated with prolongued absence of intimacy, "asserbated" by all of the issues postited above ^^^ horny ^^^ and then there is ...

HORNY!!! a combination of all of the above usually buffeted by having BCD access to well written reviews, usually with "visuals" and quite often supplemented by companion albums, well-crafted ads, high level IOP, very prompt TCB and rates and service structures and strictures ideally suited for selective hobbyists.

Not saying that I know whereof I speak, but aside from intermittent dry spells over the years, I feel my hobbying career has been very well served and serviced.

But then again, I am a certified old fart planning to retire in 2041.

IJS

[The Infamous One]

Monica, it’s funny you talk about being like s nun. Lol. Outside of the hobby, I’ve just never been promiscuous. I went on vacation once with my girlfriends and they both went crazy hooking up with random civilians. Not me! They nicknamed me the ***** nun, because my legs wouldn’t open for anyone.

I’ve come to several conclusions. 1. This hobby has spoiled me to the point, I sorta lost my dating social skills with its ease and lack of pretense. 2. I don’t like bad sex! You toss a coin in the civvie world when it comes to sex for the first time. A lot of hobbyists are sex athletes like us, so the chance of bad sex is slim! Throw in the element of surprise if it’s a new client and the bit of danger the hobby lends and boom! It makes for explosive sex! Perfect for the thrill seeker. Some say it’s easier to tell a stranger their secrets than someone close to them. I think sex is like that too for a lot of us. At least for me.

[Guest 050620-2]

Interesting...the best sex of my life has been in the last several years with providers. I credit it to the lack of inhibitions and "professional" attitudes. I actually fell in love with one lady...rather unadvised, but an experience that will stay with me to the end of my days.

[mathguy]

2. I don’t like bad sex! You toss a coin in the civvie world when it comes to sex for the first time. A lot of hobbyists are sex athletes like us, so the chance of bad sex is slim! Throw in the element of surprise if it’s a new client and the bit of danger the hobby lends and boom! It makes for explosive sex! Perfect for the thrill seeker. Some say it’s easier to tell a stranger their secrets than someone close to them. I think sex is like that too for a lot of us. At least for me.

Nikki, I'm totally with you about the excitement and thrill seeking part. Obviously that makes it very hot for both sides and if you are already horny and have good chemistry you can have really great sex. Oh, I also totally agree about the secrets too. It's easy to talk to someone you don't really know b/c you are less worried about what they think.

However, I gotta ask about your first statement regarding sex with clients vs "RL"/civvie's. Do you really mean that? Only reason I ask is b/c over the years and with the people I know I basically hear the contrary. I mean not that all their sex is bad. Nah, not that. But I have heard a good bit especially from those who have done this for a while or been with a good number of men over a length of time that a larger bulk of them are not great.

I guess either way I can't necessarily expect a completely honest "public" answer <hint hint> on that last part...fair enough.