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    Advice regarding OF girl

    So there's this SA based girl that sells explicit content on OF.

    I chatted with her a bit on her OF private messages... and purchased some content.

    I told her I followed her on IG and was also SA based... and kept it pretty clean, just complimenting her.

    After I paid she sent some exxxtremely explicit texts asking about what I would like to do to her.

    I asked if she would sell me her # so we could text... but she said no.

    We kept talking a bit about other stuff.

    A couple of minutes later I asked to meet in a nice public place, like a date.

    Earlier I asked her to sell me her #, I just bought content so she could see I'm willing to spend... but she politely declined again.

    I am kinda aware that there are rules regarding soliciting/rw encounters on OF so since
    I'm a fucking newb I was cautious of not being explicit about my intentions like when you schedule
    with a provider that you go straight to the point... but I doubt she's dumb and she can put 2 + 2 together.


    Should I try once again through IG or if she already said no on OF I should just move on?

    I'm soooo willing to break the bank to spend some time BCD with her... like LA pornstar rates lol.
    She is not aware of how much I'm willing to spend because I haven't had a chance to make an offer.
    I don't know if she would reconsider if she knew the amount.

    Looking for advice because I keep reading so many guys seeing non pros through social media on IG and SBs

    I thought if she sells explicit content and is always posting on her social media sexy content in swimsuits, lingerie, twerking, maybeeeee she has a price.

    I think I should just move on... but have never approached a girl this way.

    Thanks in advance.

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    There's nothing more frustrating than an OF / Instaspam "model" teasing so they can sell you more "content". She'll drain your wallet, and you'll never see her in person. How do you know for certain that she's even in San Antonio? When I got my burner number, I could pick from any area code in the US.

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    Quote Originally Posted by F117 View Post
    There's nothing more frustrating than an OF / Instaspam "model" teasing so they can sell you more "content". She'll drain your wallet, and you'll never see her in person. How do you know for certain that she's even in San Antonio? When I got my burner number, I could pick from any area code in the US.
    I saw her once in person at the mall but did not approach her.

    I follow her on IG and she posts almost daily stories there... she has about 10k followers and is very open to the public, so I know she is SA based.

    She kept sending me texts on the OF messages tab earlier today... but I didn't reply I don't want to spend any more on content since I find it so boring... it's not really what I'm looking for lol... nothing like the real thing. Maybe I'll reach out again in a couple of weeks... maybe I won't... idk.

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    Make your pitch - clear and succinct. Put up all you are willing to pay to get it. If its a no move on.

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    Do not pursue her on OF. Don't even hint to it or ask about meeting, (that means dates included), AT ALL...NOT on OF. Because she will never pursue that convo, even if she's interested because the chats are monitored.

    Hit her up elsewhere like email or IG but be discreet and mention that you're subbed to her OF and mention what your handle is on OF.

    Ask her, if she requires screening for sessions and if so, let her know where she can send the screening requirements and where she can reach you at. Then the ball is in her court.
    Keep it sweet, simple, (discreet) and to the point. Sending anything else might come off a bit presumptuous....

    And I say "do not mention anything else" or go into detail because doing so, may put her at risk, especially on legit sites, and also if she's trying to be UTR. She may not even offer sessions. And if she doesn't, just apologize and thank her for her time and hope she understands and isn't irritated. Because legit content creators (even legit models, masseuses and dancers) have a tendency to get a bit irritated when they are approached about sessions because some people automatically assume they must also be a provider. Which isn't always the case.

    Hope this helps and I wish you luck on your endeavors.
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    Send her 10 grand and see what happens. What could possibly go wrong.

    Quote Originally Posted by richardscott View Post
    I saw her once in person at the mall but did not approach her.

    I follow her on IG and she posts almost daily stories there... she has about 10k followers and is very open to the public, so I know she is SA based.

    She kept sending me texts on the OF messages tab earlier today... but I didn't reply I don't want to spend any more on content since I find it so boring... it's not really what I'm looking for lol... nothing like the real thing. Maybe I'll reach out again in a couple of weeks... maybe I won't... idk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 500sl View Post
    Send her 10 grand and see what happens. What could possibly go wrong.
    what's her OF link?

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    Quote Originally Posted by richardscott View Post
    So there's this SA based girl that sells explicit content on OF.

    I chatted with her a bit on her OF private messages... and purchased some content.

    I told her I followed her on IG and was also SA based... and kept it pretty clean, just complimenting her.

    After I paid she sent some exxxtremely explicit texts asking about what I would like to do to her.

    I asked if she would sell me her # so we could text... but she said no.

    We kept talking a bit about other stuff.

    A couple of minutes later I asked to meet in a nice public place, like a date.

    Earlier I asked her to sell me her #, I just bought content so she could see I'm willing to spend... but she politely declined again.

    I am kinda aware that there are rules regarding soliciting/rw encounters on OF so since
    I'm a fucking newb I was cautious of not being explicit about my intentions like when you schedule
    with a provider that you go straight to the point... but I doubt she's dumb and she can put 2 + 2 together.


    Should I try once again through IG or if she already said no on OF I should just move on?

    I'm soooo willing to break the bank to spend some time BCD with her... like LA pornstar rates lol.
    She is not aware of how much I'm willing to spend because I haven't had a chance to make an offer.
    I don't know if she would reconsider if she knew the amount.

    Looking for advice because I keep reading so many guys seeing non pros through social media on IG and SBs

    I thought if she sells explicit content and is always posting on her social media sexy content in swimsuits, lingerie, twerking, maybeeeee she has a price.

    I think I should just move on... but have never approached a girl this way.

    Thanks in advance.
    Talk in code, ask her how much are your lollipops from your Amazon Store Wish List?

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    Anyone wondering... she keeps sending those "spam" messages to all her subscribers.

    I keep getting them but I haven't replied to her in several days... this is a very short version of yesterday:

    Yesterday she sends: "are you free rn"?

    I said: Of course babe. For you always.

    She said: what was I up to?

    I said... nothing much, just got home from work... will probably take a bath and go to sleep watching movies.

    She says if I wanted to do something before going to sleep. (Obviously means through OF hehe).

    I said sure... do you want to meet anywhere or come over? I gave her my # ...hmu... I'll take good care of you. ;)

    LOL

    She said... You know I don't do that... but we can have fun here.

    And i just sent a frown emoji.

    She (or whoever I'm talking to) stopped replying.

    That's basically it... I wasn't even going to reach out to her again, but since she keeps including me on those multiple messages I took my shot.

    Moving on then.

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    Good idea. Don't waste your time with trash
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    Quote Originally Posted by GeorgeDRII View Post
    Good idea. Don't waste your time with trash
    Why is she TRASH?!

    I mean... She wasn't 18...in college...broke and easy to take advantage of but that doesn't mean that she is "trash"..

    Sort of expected more from you George...

    You cannot talk about meeting on OF... Having met or anything of that nature soooo.... Sounds like she was smart to ignore all talk of such things...

    Not the time or place...

    Trash really?!! Smdh... Good thread...😘

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    Quote Originally Posted by Slave Guinevere View Post
    Why is she TRASH?!

    I mean... She wasn't 18...in college...broke and easy to take advantage of but that doesn't mean that she is "trash"..

    Sort of expected more from you George...

    You cannot talk about meeting on OF... Having met or anything of that nature soooo.... Sounds like she was smart to ignore all talk of such things...

    Not the time or place...

    Trash really?!! Smdh... Good thread...😘
    What i mean by trash is a waste of money in my own opinion. Example: If I can't see a woman from this site or other platform, or one of my UTRs/sugarbaby's then putting money into an Onlyfans of a person I can't see is trash. (A waste of money). I prefer the intimacy or fun setting of a 1 on 1 meet-up or on a date type setting where we are together.

    But if a man prefers Onlyfans to spend his money on then so be it. Imho it's trash, not the person doing the Onlyfans but wasting time i.e. money for someone to see in person.

    I prefer the in person type. I feel to me that's not trashing my money or wasting my time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by GeorgeDRII View Post
    What i mean by trash is a waste of money in my own opinion. Example: If I can't see a woman from this site or other platform, or one of my UTRs/sugarbaby's then putting money into an Onlyfans of a person I can't see is trash. (A waste of money). I prefer the intimacy or fun setting of a 1 on 1 meet-up or on a date type setting where we are together.

    But if a man prefers Onlyfans to spend his money on then so be it. Imho it's trash, not the person doing the Onlyfans but wasting time i.e. money for someone to see in person.

    I prefer the in person type. I feel to me that's not trashing my money or wasting my time.

    Hmmm..

    I agree.. I prefer the in person type of interaction as well and I have always kept my rates fair, even during covid, because my men have always taken care of me and so, I believe in reciprocating that love and affection..

    I have many men that we just do off the clock things, when I have time, and after losing one of my ATF'S in February, it is why I have gone to a more laid back lifestyle so, I get it...

    I created my OF during covid because my clients that lived far away from me were sad and wanted a way to interact with me while I was in lock down now and for me it was a nice safe place to go where I didn't have to worry about bullies, being outed etc.. I could just post sexy photos, flirt with my men and have a good time and I was never overcharging anyone...

    When I lost my golden retriever last August and I became really sad again...and I just did not want to travel.. I got a new puppy...fell in love with him...and OF again, became a way for me to make it up to my long distant men...for not traveling...

    I needed the time with my new fur baby.. I needed to heal and bond with my new baby and to be honest...I'm not sure that I could leave him... Losing my golden last year just broke my heart... I was in the middle of my Kansas city tour and the next thing I knew... They had rushed my golden retriever into surgery and I was so appreciative to all of my KC and Dallas men for understanding when I had to drop everything and leave because it was a devastating time for my children and myself..

    So, the women on OF... We are just like everyone else... Most of us just want to make you happy and bring a little joy into your lives but occasionally, we might drop the ball... But, we try...❤️

    So, thank you for the kind explanation...

    Your appreciative slave,

    Guinevere 🤗

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    Dude, she has 10 thousand followers of which 2 or three hundred are simps. Do you want to be one? Move on! "She" could be a giant catfish.
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