No offense taken, Mathguy.
I enjoy the streetwalkers BECAUSE of the danger and inevitable failure. I like good stories; I can achieve orgasm on my own.
I have a fulfilling relationship at home and am not interested in replacing it; my bag is finding humor (and humanity) in the macabre, bizarre, unique, and yes; dangerous.

As for your condom question: I never want one during a bj, but would never do penetration without one. I have seen a couple of bbfs providers, who test regularly, over the years. I certainly agree: there is an inherent risk in doing any bareback service, but the statistics are on my side, And I also test regularly.