Thoughts on Joy Mei?

[My2cents]

Hi all, new to the area but not to the hobby and was curious if anyone has experienced Joy Mei? https://tryst.link/escort/joyatx

Aside from a few older reviews on PD, there doesn't seem to be much out there. Before I go thru her screening, was just curious for your thoughts, as her price is twice that of the other local Asians.

Thanks in advance!

[Transylvania Count]

The 30% deposit is a deal breaker for me, regardless of the reviews available. NEVER pay a deposit! This forum is full of stories about being ghosted after sending a deposit.

[My2cents]

I agree that's a big hesitation to me. I've paid a deposit once previously and it was relatively small (and I was ultimately thinking with the little head) but she's asking for a significant chunk.

Problem is ... she seems to be exactly my type. Would be happy to consider other younger super petite spinners in the north Austin area if you have any to suggest.

[Transylvania Count]

... (and I was ultimately thinking with the little head)

Historically for me, those moments were the most expensive. The classic one was "I won't discuss my menu until I collect the donation."

Problem is ... she seems to be exactly my type.

That is indeed a problem. Key words there: "seems to be". Take a couple of steps back. Do your research. Are those photos posted anywhere else on the web? Suggest a meet & greet, and see if she is who she claims to be.

Would be happy to consider other younger super petite spinners in the north Austin area if you have any to suggest.

I remember my early days in the hobby when I thought I could find exactly what I wanted.

Two stories.

1. I got an email from "Paige" asking if I still wanted to see her. No idea how she got my email. She was conveniently located in North Austin, and her rates were reasonable. She fed me a sob story about her sick mother and so on. She would not send photos (strike one). She has no recent reviews (strike two). And she wanted a $50 deposit (strike three). Once she learned I am not sending deposits, all communication ceased. She moved on to the next potential sucker.

2. Say you luck out and find your unicorn, the girl of your dreams. Everything checks out: physical appearance, personality, services, that little thing she does better than anyone else, etc. You see her a few times, and then you make the mistake of letting her know you really enjoy her company. Alarm bells go in her head. "Oh, shit! Another stalker!" They've seen it dozens of times before. And all of a sudden, she becomes a ghost. Some of the more experienced people here who are reading this are probably nodding their heads. "Been there, done that!" The moral of the story: leave feelings out of the hobby.

[My2cents]

Historically for me, those moments were the most expensive. The classic one was "I won't discuss my menu until I collect the donation."

lol without a doubt those are expensive moments. Makes me think of my first time in a strip club and COMPLETELY green when I was young and thinking "wow she really likes me"

That is indeed a problem. Key words there: "seems to be". Take a couple of steps back. Do your research. Are those photos posted anywhere else on the web? Suggest a meet & greet, and see if she is who she claims to be.

I remember my early days in the hobby when I thought I could find exactly what I wanted.

Extremely appreciative of your thoughts on this. Luckily, I'm only new to the area not the hobby. I'm new to the Austin area and over on the east coast OH2 isn't really a thing (yet), we rely on another board that shall remain nameless. Gotta say though, OH2 has absolutely struck me as a phenomenal and secure place. Glad to be a part of this.

Two stories.

1. I got an email from "Paige" asking if I still wanted to see her. No idea how she got my email. She was conveniently located in North Austin, and her rates were reasonable. She fed me a sob story about her sick mother and so on. She would not send photos (strike one). She has no recent reviews (strike two). And she wanted a $50 deposit (strike three). Once she learned I am not sending deposits, all communication ceased. She moved on to the next potential sucker.

2. Say you luck out and find your unicorn, the girl of your dreams. Everything checks out: physical appearance, personality, services, that little thing she does better than anyone else, etc. You see her a few times, and then you make the mistake of letting her know you really enjoy her company. Alarm bells go in her head. "Oh, shit! Another stalker!" They've seen it dozens of times before. And all of a sudden, she becomes a ghost. Some of the more experienced people here who are reading this are probably nodding their heads. "Been there, done that!" The moral of the story: leave feelings out of the hobby.

Good stories for the green horns. Absolutely nodding along on this. The only feelings needed in this game is your gut feeling.