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Verified Hobbyist
BCD
I recently "loaned" a lady close to $1K
to help her get back on her feet
And researched and helped her buy a
used car without assisting to finance it.
(Her POS baby-daddy totaled her
newer model Toyota and left her
high and dry)
She was leaving the hobby for a RW
Civilian job and needed some financial
assistance.
I never expect to see that $ again,
and would be very surprised if the
loan is paid back.
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To counter funinsanantonio's point...
In Kommie-fornia there IS such a thing
as PALIMONY, so you're still not safe
from owing "friend-money".
Be safe. And to the gents...
Try to use your big head more often
when making hobby decisions.
JW
Last edited by JohnnyWadd; 12-20-2023 at 12:03 PM.
50yo WM. Retired Military.
Sweet Playful Sapiosexual
Southern Gentleman.
Seeks passionate GFE encounters
and intimate connections.
DATY and kissing are a must.
FHRITP Bloopers
https://youtu.be/6fhszlqOfq4
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Verified Hobbyist
BCD
Something else that drives
me BSC when I see it....
When entitled HDH's post
on Twitter/X
"Who is going to buy me
this $2000 Prada handbag?"
Then some simp who is
is her #1 Only Fans patreon
ACTUALLY BUYS IT ! ! !
WTAF?
You did NOTHING and expect
men to shower you with gifts ? ! ?
I will never understand that...
50yo WM. Retired Military.
Sweet Playful Sapiosexual
Southern Gentleman.
Seeks passionate GFE encounters
and intimate connections.
DATY and kissing are a must.
FHRITP Bloopers
https://youtu.be/6fhszlqOfq4
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I see that on twitter all the time. And the girls that brag about “findom”. Financial domination where the guys just “empty” their accounts because the girl says “pay me this much guys”. Fetishes are great and what not, but findom, is just dumb. If findom is a dudes fetish, he really should seek therapy.
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There’s a sucker burned every minute BCUZ there’s a sucker born every minute!
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Verified Companion
Companion
SMH, Sorry guys
Reading these while bored at home and arguing with a hobbyist about an increase in rates. It's really sad that we can't trust each other. Why would any provider scam a hobbyist, Majority of my guys are always there when I needreciation them. If they can't get away to visit they help with referals or reviews or they make it a point to come visit within 48 hours. We don't like it when hobbyists want to haggle us about our menu and donatiions. We certainly don't say ok come visit and donate later. So, why would we expext our guys to send us their hard earned money as a front and why on earth would we not be wuiling to show appreciation for the help we are given. A deposit? I am not going to lie, I hate games as much as the next girl. If rhey pay a deposit and something happens because let's be honest some ptoviders are flaky. There's just as many posts about providers rippinng off hobbyists or robbing them scamming them, or missing appointments as there are the hobbuists that don't show probably more. Seriously, I am sorry for those who got burned on both sides. Let's appreciate our guys for being there for us. But at the same time guys yes your pay may not have increased much but prices are going up everywhere rent supplies etc. Our costs go up our linerie candles oils etc all the prices have gone up on us so lwe have to adjust our donation requests as well. So consider that when you get upset that our donation requests are raised. Even food prices have gone up. Remember guys there are some of us who do care about you the same as you care about us. Anyone that takes advantage of anyone NOT IN A GOOD WAY AT LEAST karma will come back and get you. Stay safe Guys and Ladies.
Yve
CONTROL MY PLEASURE WITH A LINK TO MY LOVENSE DOLCE ASK ME HOW ACCEPTING CASHAPP. LOOK ME UP ON X @YveParadyse & Telegram & Tango @ https://tango.me/yveparadyse
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Karma WILL prevail!
I recently advanced $1500 and although the super hot model did make good, paying it back per session, it felt awkward and I felt compelled to see her just to make up the amount AND still gave her $ on every session so She actually made more than what WOULD have been the standard rate per visit. She’s since asked for more but I’ve not gone down that path again and that’s definitely changed the entire dynamic.
I’ve also loaned out $1100 to another hottie from Tryst, THINKING she would own up to it but instead she acted as if it was a gift when she specifically asked for help/loan! I didn’t press it, but in the immortal words of Shakespeare, “Neither a borrower nor a lender be…”
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Just before Christmas I saw a post from a provider who travels TX a lot and was in town. I've never seen her and people on this board have said a lot of great things about her. As far as I could tell, she checked every one of my boxes. A rare find for me. I reached out to her for screening she wouldn't talk about my proposed date and time to get together until I gave her a deposit. It took a day of wrangling with this in my head. It came down to what if I give her a deposit and our schedules don't align. Then what?
I did not move forward.
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Verified Companion
Companion
Originally Posted by
JohnnyWadd
I recently "loaned" a lady close to $1K
to help her get back on her feet
And researched and helped her buy a
used car without assisting to finance it.
(Her POS baby-daddy totaled her
newer model Toyota and left her
high and dry)
She was leaving the hobby for a RW
Civilian job and needed some financial
assistance.
I never expect to see that $ again,
and would be very surprised if the
loan is paid back.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
To counter funinsanantonio's point...
In Kommie-fornia there IS such a thing
as PALIMONY, so you're still not safe
from owing "friend-money".
Be safe. And to the gents...
Try to use your big head more often
when making hobby decisions.
JW
Try someone new think outside the box I take care who ever takes care me . Very loyal and genuine .
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I look at such a scenario like gambling. You put your $ down and should have no expectations of getting it back (The house wins), or maybe you break even (you get paid back or get what you paid for), or maybe, just maybe, you might come out ahead (a freebie perhaps, or at least a discount...).
I don't ever really gamble; you want a deposit? I am not spinning that wheel...
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I been there as well. Lost 500 to a regular of 3 yrs. Ask for the money a week before a scheduled session. Spent the next three months getting cancelled on. You think you establish a rapport, but it’s all shit.
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