Not new to the hobby. New to the verification process. I've been hobbying for years. Recently trying to get verified so that I can visit some of the ladies that required it. The last two women I've seen said they do not verify gents. Reason: they see it as taking money from themselves. They don't want to help another girl to see one of their regulars. They gave the exact same answer. I don't press the issue but it's frustrating trying to get over this barrier. Anyone else run into this?