Hobby vs real world sex

[Anna Nikkole]

I can name a few things. I love when it's a client I know know. Have had many encounters with.

So when a new gent wants me to cum, it's sometimes an attempt. I see a stranger between my legs anxious feel teeth, I tighten up waiting for the worst. Rub my clit hard with his dry fingers and push down to hard. Seems clients are dead set on making the woman cum. So what do we do? Most won't admit it. We lie to save more rough rubbing the clit or eating the puss way to aggressive with face scruff.

So my question is, why would you take it personally if you don't know each other. I have so much fun with my regular gents, but I'm real. And honestly with a new gent, penetration is the key because you can put your head next to mine and I can stop thinking about you looking at my face and double chim and tense up once again.

I get excitement, but it makes me guard myself and while on guard I'm definitely not gonna relax and cum.

Input please

[Corpusprowler]

Communication is key. Guys have no idea what new women want and ladies have no idea what new guys wants. So you can either talk or just go with the flow. But I do understand what you mean. If I feel teeth, I tense up. If you suck on the head too much, I tense up. If you throw a hat on during bj, I tense up. Because I know I don’t like those things, I know I can’t get aroused, but if I fail to tell you, the provider, you will keep going until I go limp. That can cause issue even piss provider off, especially with the clock ticking and a transactional no GFE provider.

[Tracker7]

sometimes as you state, it is a challenge. Personally I wouldn't mind a gentle nudge in the right direction. I try to offer that as well. If it is too much or too restrictive it gets in the way and I probably won't repeat. We (men)are not by nature, gentle creatures and it's easy to get carried away in the moment. I'm with CP^^^
a little communication can make a meh session awesome, but sometimes things just click, so it confuses you when a partner is different than another. After all, we are irresistibly the best


in our own mind anyway.

[Anna Nikkole]

sometimes as you state, it is a challenge. Personally I wouldn't mind a gentle nudge in the right direction. I try to offer that as well. If it is too much or too restrictive it gets in the way and I probably won't repeat. We (men)are not by nature, gentle creatures and it's easy to get carried away in the moment. I'm with CP^^^
a little communication can make a meh session awesome, but sometimes things just click, so it confuses you when a partner is different than another. After all, we are irresistibly the best


in our own mind anyway.

I love my repeat clients, but sometimes they forget, get excited and I'm wondering if I'm going to get bit, pinched in the wrong place, or slapped to hard. Sometimes the excitement makes us tense up regardless who it comes from.

So I guess we say "slow down sparky". Like some don't want emotional or passionate love making, they want a aggressive porn star experience. I no longer do those. I love slow and sensual

[Zed 79]

I do feel bad that I didn’t get the provider to cum, but I’m also aware that we haven’t been together many times to learn what it takes to get her to finish. Just one of those things. Maybe if I was a super regular it’d be a different story. As for real world sex, you have repetition with your partner and know what works. Plus, let’s be real, there are some ugly motherfuckers out there fucking hot women in the provider world, so I can see why she wouldn’t finish.

[Corpusprowler]

Come give me some of that slow and sensual. If a provider makes me believe she’s my lady while we are in session, I become a devoted regular!!! But it’s almost impossible to find the unicorn!!! Lol.

Major GFE, BBBJ, CIM, MSOG, DFK, titty worship, CW, eye contact, dirty talk (not Raunchy), IOP, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, mish, doggie, slow fucking, hard fucking, cuddling, not a clock watcher or mechanical…. Repeat!!!

That’s my “UNICORN”. I have met three of those ladies:
Sexyladyblue is Corpus
Anabel in Addison
Faith from Arkansas

Close to Unicorn but missing a one or a few of the criteria:
SexxyCarly- Dallas- very freakin close!!!!
Liddobittytt- very close too!!!
Those ladies are magnificent in every aspect of the session!!!

Sadly- One retired, two are too far to see and the other two I have to hit the schedule just right to see them but they are worth it!!!

Funny thing is, all five of those ladies….. we all hit it off right as we met. Seriously. Instant attraction, both sides. It made the sex so great!!! Each visit just got better. I love those ladies!!! They are why I hobby!!! They give me exactly what I want, no strings, no heartaches, no drama…… Just pure bliss!!!

My hats off to all ladies that fit this bill, and I need you to PM me, lmao!!!! Cause that’s what it’s all about!!!

[Lauren_xxx]

I can relate to this 100%! its the reason I prefer to stay low volume because it allows an opportunity for me to get personal and comfortable over time with my hobby friends. Contrary to popular beliefs, I am very insecure about my body and I am also very sensitive in my vaginal area so discomfort can really set the tone for the meeting. although ill always do my best to ensure we both have a great time, its so much easier when you can be with someone who knows how to please you. BUT I do enjoy the beginning stages of familiarity, Im open with communication and I like to ask questions about what your likes and dislikes are. I'm a HUGE advocate for and fan of coaching. Not only is it a turn on, but its also very helpful and relaxing.

[Tracker7]

now that's a can / plan I can get behind

[StockingsFan89]

Have you seen anabel recently?

[Ben Rhimene]

Have you seen anabel recently?

Please do not hijack the thread...send the poster a PM if you want/have info.

[charismaticchloie]

I hate when guys do this, I'm not going to lie" "Cum for me" "Let me know when you're gonna cum" etc is pressure! It puts me on the spot and sometimes I can be close and when they say this --- it ruins it for me especially when they want to call me by name - LOL.

If I am meeting someone new - I always like to start with "what are your likes and don't likes."

I feel like even an hour session can be a little rushed sometimes also. I feel like I have always taken longer than my clients to cum. I either have to be really in the mood, they must be a wizard with their tounge, or we just have to be hitting it just right for me to cum in session. It is a slow grind for me 95% of the time. While I can see how that can be hurtful to one's feelings - it really isn't unrealistic especially when it isn't a well known client.

I definitely enjoy when I am able to see a regular and have that much more of a connection. I love that after a few appointments, we just mesh effortlessly. We know what gets each other off, etc.

[Tracker7]

are we married Chloie? Just kidding, but we can pretend if you want

[Captain.Classic]

I hate when guys do this, I'm not going to lie" "Cum for me" "Let me know when you're gonna cum" etc is pressure! It puts me on the spot and sometimes I can be close and when they say this --- it ruins it for me especially when they want to call me by name - LOL.

If I am meeting someone new - I always like to start with "what are your likes and don't likes."

I feel like even an hour session can be a little rushed sometimes also. I feel like I have always taken longer than my clients to cum. I either have to be really in the mood, they must be a wizard with their tounge, or we just have to be hitting it just right for me to cum in session. It is a slow grind for me 95% of the time. While I can see how that can be hurtful to one's feelings - it really isn't unrealistic especially when it isn't a well known client.

I definitely enjoy when I am able to see a regular and have that much more of a connection. I love that after a few appointments, we just mesh effortlessly. We know what gets each other off, etc.

Chemistry is really the key. It’s part of the reason why, though I’m often curious to try “new flavors,” I mostly stick to what (who) I know. Sometimes you’ll have instant chemistry and she will guide you on what does and doesn’t work for her. And then if you see someone on a regular basis, you of course become more familiar with their likes and their body as a whole so you know where to go.

As Anna mentioned, I usually AM “dead set” on making the lady cum and so I used to take it very personally when she did not like “what did I miss? What didn’t I do?” And a lot of times I’ll ask for feedback so I know what to keep in mind if we meet again. In the real world some guys take that personal too but I am a VERY avid learner and I really want the provider to feel comfortable with me too. Because one of the cheat codes to making a woman cum/orgasm is her being relaxed. I often feel pressure to just make a good impression.

I don’t mind a slow grind if you’re enjoying it versus if I’m making it a chore LOL.

[GeorgeDRII]

I live for making the woman cum first. That's what gets me going. Sensual is imho the best encounter between her and I.

I do like to look up at the lady when I'm licking her clit. If she's giving me that, "Oh shit he's fire" expression I keep going with that until she cums. I like when the lady tries to turn her body to get away then i lock down on her body like a pit bull and have her cum! I like hearing her squeel in pleasure.

I also like when a lady talks to me during so we can get that rhythm going. Oh and yes I do like to lead. Sometimes when a lady is highly aroused I'll lick up her back because the nerve sensor along the spine are tingling and it ads to the excitement!

Some ladies like when I rub their "G-spot" (skenes gland) inside their vajayjay while I'm licking their pearl mmmm their expressions on their face are priceless. Some even like a little DATO after i make them cum.

Once they're sensitive then I suit up and commence to stretch out their kitty. I'm glad I'm thick as fuck, nothing like hittin those walls when I'm inside. Oh and all positions she likes, I like! Then I erupt like a volcano and there you have it. Sensuality and closeness are excellent to make an encounter amazing!

[Anna Nikkole]

You be surprised how many clients "make" us fake it. Especially if I feel teeth of something from the jump, I stay on guard waiting for the time I can fake it. Because once something sets me into defense mode, rarely any turning back.

And yes all escorts do this. Rather you know it or not. Men love to experiment with us as in they don't care if they hurt us. We are well aware that we are guinea pigs for the civi women. I like my regular gents so much. They know not to pinch or bite ANYTHING. Porn gives a false perception of what should really happen.