Screening question for the ladies

[Allaboutthebbbj]

If a gentleman sends you all the screening information you ask for and for whatever reason you decide not to see him do you send him a message letting him know or just ignore him completely?

[Kara Nicole]

I let him know.

[Universal]

Give him a legit reason
But some men can't handle
rejection no matter how nice you
are about the reason.
> thats in any type of business these days.
I worked in a casino & saw customers get
"cut-off" from liquor & tossed out when
they became beligerent.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

Just say sorry love I just feel we are not a good match ..

[Anna Nikkole]

The world is all about profiling. If someone is young and has a certain look, especially tattoos on the face. I go with my gut. I do let him know and I give a reason or not. I just make it general that I don't think we're a good match. Someone can cross all your boxes but their look is just a no and for no reason except a gut feeling, we are working with something very precious, our bodies in a very vulnerable position. I go with it and have been called names, that confirms my decision was correct. However I have had guys respond as a gentleman and make me change my mind. I'm usually right though.

[someguy12]

I had a provider do that very thing to me around the beginning of this year. Quite annoying especially since her TCB has always been on point and she’s seen me many times and to just ghost someone without a notice was VERY unprofessional.

So I finally got the reason finally after sending her a PM about WTF?? and after giving me one of those default lame ass lines of “SHE COULDN’T SEE ME ANYMORE.” But I had to pull teeth to get the real reason out of her. So she explained it to me which turned out to be some stupid BS reason that she never brought up to me that we could of easily resolved had she told me earlier. But she chose the….EXCUSE THE PUN…THE PUSSY WAY OUT! I was REALLY upset.

SO THE MORAL OF THE STORY IS BE STRAIGHT WITH SOMEONE. In my case I understand her trying to avoid a confrontation, but not saying anything at all makes it worse.

[Guest 082722-1]

One should certainly let the other person now of there decision for sure!

[Cameron]

IMO, no explanation or reason is necessary. If a provider doesn’t want to see someone, that’s her choice. HOWEVER, a simple: I won’t be able to see you, or even a NO, would suffice.. Take the NO & move on to the next lady..