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    Nothing to be embarrassed about with the prostate thing! We all have one... an asshole not a prostate. Lol! As long as things are prepped & clean. I’ve heard and seen with my own eyes what it’s like to have a fanfuckingtastic explosive orgasm that way. Yolo right?! Find a lady you are comfortable with, lose the inhibitions and have a blast!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sue Nami View Post
    so what have you not tried yet that you want to?
    2 girls?
    TUMA?
    Prostate milking?
    strap on?
    restraint> aka tie and tease?
    role play? costumes?
    shower play?
    squirting, education, demo, wet play?
    electro play?
    impact play like flogging, spanking, paddling?
    extreme CBT?
    edging, tease and denial, forced orgasm?

    so gents, what's on your bucket list and what secret fantasy have you been nurturing but not pulled the trigger on yet? yes I know, some things are a bit scary to trust someone to do right. some things are embarrassing to ask for. that's why you see a pro to lead you thru the exciting newness of trying something totally out of the regular run of the mill session. so fellas, fess up, what sort of session have you been dreaming of but not yet tried?
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    I’ll have one of each, please. :)
    One of each??? Wow. Not me. Some of that list is freaky! I don't like the torture and hardcore bondage stuff.

    2 girls? Oh sure!
    DATO (I don't really want TUMA!) is great sure!
    Roleplay/costumes? Oh ya. Fun!
    Teasing (maybe some tying/cuffs - but not any big time bondage stuff)? Ya that can be fun!

    Squirting? Love to get a girl off that can actually squirt or have gspot orgasm but not all girls can really do it easily, or even at all, and I definitely don't want you to just piss on me! No tank you! No no.

    Don't like the torture stuff on that list AT ALL. Nope.
    Extreme CBT ???? OMG.

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    My try new thing is pretty lame, I would love to be able to take advantage of msog as I am a one popper.
    Squirter would be fun as well!
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    hey there Dragon big boy..wink wink. squirter msog fan here with brunettish hair here. LOL howdy, I maybe your next new ATF.

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    LOL Sue!!!!!! I think you might give me a heart attack.
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    dragon, I haven't lost a fellow yet!! be brave lil buckeroo and dip your toe into the dark side. I promise to be gentle and re calibrate your fun meter

    Busty, Sexy, Mature and into YOUR pleasure
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    Squirting and FMF are two of my all-time favorites, but haven't had either in years. Took a chance with the prostate thing once, but it wasn't what I'd hoped, so maybe it just wasn't right or I wasn't relaxed enough. Who knows? I have yet to session with Native American, Southwest Asian or East Indian, and those are on my bucket list. I'm also curious to experience a monster clit. Also, public sex of some type. I'm sure if I keep thinking I'll come up with more.
    "Well we all pay for sex one way or another. At least ******s are honest about the price." - Cal Lightman, Lie to Me

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    Squirting is fun but just real hard to achieve. I don't even think it's very feasible in the "hobby" when you are paying someone for sex. Maybe with great chemistry and if you already know each other. Yea. But first time? That's like asking to win the lottery.
    Squirting is hard to achieve even in private life. It's so personal and vulnerable. The woman needs to be so relaxed and trusting with you and obviously very horny and you need to be skilled at it.

    Some girls can't have g-spot orgasms. It's virtually anatomically impossible for some. A "squirt" orgasm is really just a really hard internal anterior vaginal wall orgasm. And there is not "g-spot". Not conclusively. There does appear to be a Skene's gland which is similar to a mans prostate, however, they can't find it in all women (doesn't exist - that's why that woman can't do it no matter what). The Skene's produces a type of PSA which is what male semen is made of (prostate specific antigen).

    FYI semen and sperm not equal. You can have 5.5ml's of semen (that's a large load btw) b/c he produces tons of PSA but have 50million dead or low motility sperm (i.e. not good swimmers). Another man can produce less PSA more around the avg of about 1.5-3ml's but have 200million highly viable sperm. So just an FYI. Semen and sperm are 2 separate concepts with zero correlation. Actually data suggests that men with hyperspermia (beyond 5.5 milliliters - look it up) are much less likely to have viable sperm. I only mention b/c there is such ridiculous nonsense about how a huge "load" could impregnate so many women, etc... Nope. A guy can dribble out 1.5milli's but have 300million very active "swimming" sperm.

    The female Skene's is thought to produce a similar protein mixture. This is only partly due to what "squirts" out. That's a really bad term too. It should just be called a "g-spot orgasm". Most real ones don't really "shoot" and "squirt". They can a little. But the stuff in porn is just way way over the top. A woman would need to force that through her urethra. And that's not why a woman appears to "pee" when she g-spot orgasms. It's b/c of the Skene's gland along with some loss of control in the bladder. So there is a mixture of a protein from the skene's which is roughly homologous to the prostate in men along with urine from the bladder. This is also not surprisingly why many women find it easy to have a great orgasm when they need to pee. Not badly. You don't want that usually. But if they are feeling the sensation then they may start to get horny or want to fuck. These are usually girls who know that it's happened before and the thought of it is making them horny, they know its easy to feel good when that happens. My hypothesis is that that part is psychosomatic though. It's really just the arousal from remember how good past orgasms were and they know it can happen so their body begins to rev up. That's my theory on that. But anyway.

    The other thing is that there is no such thing as a "g-spot" as in an organ. Even if you consider the Skene's gland. The g-spot is really just part of the entire clitoral nerve network that runs along the anterior wall of the inside of the vagina (up against the inside of tummy/lower tummy and behind the clit). If you don't believe me just read some online. I know from reading a lot but also from personal experience with 2 different girls in my life. Look it up though. This is why some girls can't do it. Not only do they not have a Skene's gland, or it can't be found (it's very small - doctors still can't agree on all the various aspects of it conclusively). The other thing is if they are not very receptive with the nerve endings throughout their clitoral network then it will be very difficult too.

    It's all about genetics and where the nerve endings are, if they have a Skene's gland or not, how responsive it is, how responsive their internal clitoral network is, and of course you have to relaxed enough, horny enough, and the partner has to be experience enough to find it and massage it in the correct way.

    But, again, g-spot is not an organ or even a real "spot". It's different for each woman. It's just a patch of nerves that are part of the clitoral network. Part of it will be really sensitive. If you hit that and can massage it correctly with her aroused enough, trusting enough with you to "let go", etc... then it can happen. But some girls just won't have that sensitivity or that gland won't be large enough or the internal clitoral network won't be sensitive enough and so on. A real true g-spot orgrasm (which, again, is really just an internal, anterior vaginal wall, clitoral network orgasm) will cause a woman to lose control of the bladder and she will appear to pee some (and indeed some will be urine and some will be mixed with vaginal acids and proteins along prostate like antigen proteins). Usually it will not "squirt" and "spray" all over the place.

    If you want that.... I can make that easy for you. Tell the girl you like huge squirting like in porn. Tell her to drink a gallon of water 1-2hrs before your meeting. Then she can just force her pee out at the right time, acting like she is having a mind blowing orgasm, and "shoot" massive loads of piss all over you. Simple. Job done. You're a stud. Job well done. Go take a shower b/c you stink. But I guarantee that is not a real g-spot orgasm. Uh uh.

    An actual real g-spot orgasm with a woman is a really magical thing. It is. It takes trust, being really into each other, expertise, and she has to completely let go (and she's gotta have the right genetics - really some women simply can't b/c the clitoral nerve network is not deep enough or sensitive enough etc). A real one, an actual real g-spot orgasm with a partner, is truly something to behold. Every man should get to experience that once in his life If he can. But they are not the end all be all to female orgasms. Other women who can't have them will know of no other orgasm and it will still be great! They have never had anything different so you/they are not "missing out" on anything (in that case).

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    That was an excellent read Mathguy. So basically, the squirting in porn is urine? How do you think that got started?

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    LOL Mathguy!!!
    I have been with a few squirting women and no where near is that stuff mixed with urine; it is its own thing entirely. Now the porn piece is fake along with the yogurt sized facial shot.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DragonX View Post
    LOL Mathguy!!!
    I have been with a few squirting women and no where near is that stuff mixed with urine; it is its own thing entirely. Now the porn piece is fake along with the yogurt sized facial shot.
    Well, it's true they won't all smell like urine. The orgasm itself, yes, doesn't come from that. That's entirely true. Totally agree with you buddy. There is a gland that produces an antigen protein. Certainly that is coming out (yep). Some will have more than others. But typically the orgasm is so intense that they lose control of part of the bladder. It may not smell though.

    Urine smells strongly only b/c the byproduct of cellular metabolism, after filtering in the kidneys, which of course removes nitrogen, urea, uric acid, creatinine, allows those compounds in some cases to break down into ammonia or similar ammonia structures. Urea itself is a byproduct of the breakdown of protein structures. Under certain conditions or metabolic disorders (even if temporary - example: dehydration) the urea can break down to ammonia. It will have a strong odor. If you are well hydrated and have a good diet and no metabolic disorders you will not have stinky urine. It may have no odor at all there will be such a low concentration of urea and uric acids.

    There is definitely a component of bladder leakage. The Skene's gland is simply not large enough to produce even the amount of semen that a male prostate produces (which in *extreme* cases is no more than 5.5-6.5milliliters). The Skene's cannot produce that much fluid. There is simply no way. It's anatomically impossible. But, yea it is possible that you have a large mixture of female proteins, acids, moisture, and prostate-like antigen mixed with some urine that has very little urea/uric acid and virtually no smell. But I guarantee there is urine in there.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Austin Ellen View Post
    That was an excellent read Mathguy. So basically, the squirting in porn is urine? How do you think that got started?
    Hi, Ellen. Thank you for the compliment.

    While I'm not a porn industry exec so I admit I cannot conclusively say exactly what it is or why they are doing it. I fully admit that. But I know from seeing what a g-spot orgasm looks like on a couple/few women, a real one, and it's just not anything like porn. Porn is so over the top blown away its absurd. There is no "shooting" and "squirting" unless they are forcefully pushing through the urethra. Which I imagine is what porn starlets are doing when told they need to do a squirting scene.

    My guess is that this happened as the concept of squirting and the "g-spot" became more popular and known. In time because of all the various people who like "water sports" and are into gushing wet orgasms (some women are just very, very moist and produce lots of vaginal moisture proteins and acids and healthy bacteria - these are what help you keep infections away). I believe that as it became more popular the porn industry just kept "raising the bar". Just like they always do. Example: the massive amount of anal sex and various "extreme" acts in porn today versus what you would see even just 15 years ago.

    If that makes sense? That's my overall hypothesis for why it's occurring in the adult film industry. I can tell you though those orgasms you see on porn sites are completely fake (unless maybe it's a rare true educational video or a couple that's doing it at home for fun). A real clitoral g-spot orgasm simply does not "shoot" and "spray" everywhere. It doesn't. Not even close. It may come out a little. And even that, if done in private life, is likely b/c the woman and the man are excited by it and she is allowing it to "fly out"/"force out" b/c they are into the idea of a really sloppy orgasm. Other than that, no. A real one is not like that at all. Not even remotely so (with the caveat that there are some educational style videos which are not bad at all - however I will even caution that some of those women I believe are still putting on a show for the camera or their man). Yea, it may "fly" around b/c some fluids are gushing as you lose control of muscles along with bladder and the Skene's but it's b/c the guy is flicking his fingers in a "come here"/"come hither" motion extremely rapidly and this is causing it "splash" (to a degree - not ridiculous amounts).

    The volume we are talking about here is typically on the order of 1/2 cup to 1.5 cups. That's about the amount that would typically come out in a woman that experiences a g-spot orgrasm. In extreme case or fuller bladder maybe up to 2+ cups. Even 3/4 to 1 cup would wet a bed very nicely. So don't worry people you can still get your jollies off and have a woman have a real g-spot orgasm Sheesh I don't know what the fascination is with the wetting the "entire" bed and "spraying" pee everywhere. LOL.

    EDIT: (just to add what a real one is like)
    My ex years ago was the first person I experienced this with. Sometimes there was a lot. Sometimes not as much. Depends on her bladder her Skene's gland her moisture and hydration levels and so on. The first time this happened it wasn't even using toys or the fingers. She was sitting on me. And yes it feels like she pees on you. A bunch leaks out everywhere. She was on top rocking forward and back very quickly, which rubs that "g-spot" (just like the finger trick) and it hit just right and she came harder than I've ever seen anyone cum in my life. You will know a real one. It's IMPOSSIBLE to fake. She lost control. Complete control. The beginning was a yell of ecstasy, very loud. Wow. She began to shake and quiver as all the juices came flooding down all over my lap, penis, legs, and the bed. She started sweating profusely. She collapsed on top of me, still shaking, and moaning for what was at least a solid 3min if not longer. The tiniest movement would send shockwaves down her body during this time. The wetness obviously doesn't keep coming. That comes in the beginning as she loses control and the bladder empties and the Skene's gland and vagina produce large amounts of antigen and various acids and moisture.
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    Uhhhhh I sense an experiment!
    One lady as the control, orgasm without ejaculate
    One lady that does squirt, consistantly with little ejaculate
    One lady that does sqiurt, consistantly with large ejaculate

    Seems a sniff test, taste test, feel test of the source makes sense.
    Then we test the ejaculate.

    This is all theoretical of course. If you dont like my hypothesis, its three beautiful women there, who cares!!
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    Hahahah....nice idea. Definitely be a fun experiment either way huh?

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    wow that's quite some mansplaining going on there math. Look this is easily proven, as a squirting woman, I offer sessions with golden shower and squirting in the same sessions and I can show anyone who cares to learn the difference easily in a one hour fetish session. Please, put your money where your mouth is and pony up and let me prove it and you can write a review. I am not skeered and I squirt and it is most definitely NOT pee. Ya know, it always tickles me when a man writes a long missive about squirting is not real and merely pee when I have personally taught 100's of women to squirt. I am not here to argue with you. I am here to squirt on you. come here.
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