Chemistry or Con Artist Looking for LOVE in all the wrong places? Are there those that are looking for love in a pay for play industry / site? Sadly it would seem so. I read about IOP (Illusion of Passion) and simply laugh. It’s certainly wonderful when needs are met by both provider and hobbyist. I most recently read where a hobbyist / boyfriend allows a provider / girl friend to work as a provider. He is such a sweet heart and even drives her to out calls and is always close by during incalls. My oh my has the industry changed. There was a word for that kind of “boy friend”. Is there really ever chemistry? Tell you what, take money out of the deal and see what happens.